I'm a 24 years old tall black alpha-male with good looks, but I'm afraid that has become both a blessing and a curse.
Me being having those looks has also made me less approachable as most women assume i'm either 1. cocky, 2. very picky, 3. a player, which puts a huge wall between me and them even before approaching.
Through practice, i've learned to own my character (alpha-male, also the result of being a student of the cocky+funny game), and just roll with it. This turned out to work amazingly on older women (30+), but terribly on younger ones. This is not just a mere assumption of mine, but lots of female friends and sex partners have told me this - with my looks i come across as being full-of-myself or a hard core player before saying a single word. My guess is that younger women are just a lil more insecure or something, not too sure.
Now my question is Because i cant change my appearance (I cant stop working out just because i want to look less jockey, and obviously cant change my skin color), do I just roll with cocky+funny game? or do the opposite (Play Mr nice guy) in order to balance things out.
Some advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks