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    Exclamation i feel like a STALKER!!!

    So I'll try to keep it short, but to really ask this question you need to know what the situation is and where I'm at with it.

    Here it goes: Earlier today I had to go to the bank and talk with someone about some finance options. I walk into the bank and head over to the clipboard to sign in. As I was signing in to be seen, I looked up and there waiting for me to finish signing in was a HB 9. I was just taken aback. But she seemed to think I was cute by the way she looked at me. I finished and took a seat and then she finished and took a seat as well, but before I could even say "Hi" and almost instantly my name was called to be seen by a banker. I got up and exchanged a glance with her as I passed by on my way to the back offices. She seemed interested and almost as infatuated as I was. I had my talk with my banker and he handed me some paper work to look over. It was very hot outside so I figured I'd sit back down in the lobby and "read through it" when in fact I was waiting for her to get done with her banker. It never happened. I waited for ten, fifth-teen minutes. I couldn't stay forever, so I got up and went across the parking lot to a credit union as suggested by my banker. I relized I had lost his card and forgotten the credit card company he referred me to. The perfect excuse to go back! I mean it was in the same parking lot, so why not? Like de javu, I went back and signed in. As I signed in, something clicked! I'd remembered that she signed in right after me. I took a mental note of her name, thinking I might be able to catch up with her on facebook. She was still there which made sense because I wasn't gone very long. She was still looking at me from time to time and I think from my peripherial vison she started to stare as I talked to my banker. I got the information I needed and his card. I later searched for her on facebook and she came up right away because we had some mutal friends!

    Here's my question(s): What the hell do I do now?! Should I message her and add her? If so, how? Should I wait and see if she posts a status of where she's at like "Here at Starbucks" and then I'll just HAPPEN to go there and meet her again? I'm lost here. And thats why I'm coming to you to ask the experts and PUAs!!! Please Help!!!

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    Kboxster

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    Default Re: i feel like a STALKER!!!

    If you do the first one, she might (probably) ask how you got her name.

    The 2nd one is also no guarantee for sure.

    Maybe since you both have mutual friends, you can say that you found her through one of those friends.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: i feel like a STALKER!!!

    Thanks for the speedy response! I do have photographic memory. Maybe I can tell her that? I don't know if she'll buy it though.

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    Default Re: i feel like a STALKER!!!

    Having a photographic memory definitely helps in this situation.

    If she doesn't buy it, then eventually prove it so she'll believe you :P
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    Default Re: i feel like a STALKER!!!

    Quite the predicament.

    I like the idea of just coming across her profile since you have mutual friends. Not sure if you should bring up that you've seen her before. Maybe just act like it's the first time you seeing her and thought she was cute. Wait to see if she brings it up first. And act like you don't remember her lol.

    If you do bring up the bank then you could play with her by accusing her of befriending your friends just to find you.
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