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    Default Bad timing?

    I'll try to keep this short...been seeing this girl for about a month, real cool chick. We have conflicting schedules for the next month or so (I work 40+ hours at my normal job then work at a bar at the jersey shore on the weekends, but that's only for the summer). Anyway I texted her on Sunday asking her if she wanted to go get crabs, which we've been talking about doing. No response. I didn't text her in the meantime, she finally responds today with a long winded text about how busy she is with her new job and all and ends it with "I don't want to lead you on but I don't want you to think that I don't like you cause I do! I think it's just the wrong time for us to keep hooking up, once our schedules aren't so crazy I feel like it'll be a lot easier."

    Is this girlspeak for letting me down easy? Never got the bad timing one before. I feel like she could be sincere...but then again I've dated enough to know that girls have a whole language of their own and nothing is what it seems. I haven't said anything back yet, and I'm thinking that maybe no response at all is my best course of action...but I wanted to defer to the experts first on this one.

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    Default Re: Bad timing?

    I should also note that working in a bar down the shore affords me plenty of opportunities to hook up with hot girls, which I can and do take advantage of. But they're typically one nighters and I don't actually date them.

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    Default Re: Bad timing?

    Usually I'd say that its girl talk for rejecting you/not liking you that much. But in this case, I think she may actually be sincere. I don't know how her schedule is, but yours is pretty crazy.

    I say give her the benefit of the doubt. The fact that her message started with "I don't want to lead you on, but also don't want you to think I don't like you" makes me think she's telling the truth.
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    Default Re: Bad timing?

    That was my thought too. And if I never hang out with this girl again it's not like it's the end of my world, but she's a quality girl that I'd like to see what can happen with so I think you're right that I should give her the benefit of the doubt...so what kind of response do I go with without coming off as an AFC?

    As for her schedule, she works a lot during the week too and is occasionally down the shore as well...but I'm working all weekend so it's not like we have much time to hang out.

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    Default Re: Bad timing?

    Quote Originally Posted by mth185 View Post
    Anyway I texted her on Sunday asking her if she wanted to go get crabs
    Hahahahahahaha

    I'm almost disappointed she didn't make a joke on this.
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    Default Re: Bad timing?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Hahahahahahaha

    I'm almost disappointed she didn't make a joke on this.
    I thought to myself as soon as I posted this thread..."I should've just written 'dinner'" haha

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    Default Re: Bad timing?

    Can anyone help me out with a response to send to her without me sounding like a complete goon?


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