So again I met this girl..I was invited at one of my good friends marriage last Saturday which was celebrated on an Island here in my country .I met a girl who happens to be the best man’s sister. Anyway we talk a bit at the church(teasing and laughing) and at the reception happened to be on the same talbe but at opposite sided. . I went to the reception with other people’s car and made agreements with them that we are about to leave very late So I thought I had plenty of time to game her and number close her. We talked at the beginning a bid and then as I was walking around I found an empty chair next to her and I sat. I started gaming her very openly and it was obvious that I was flirting her running solid game. I got that night too many shit tests on the row (which means I had built attraction) passing all of them by negging/ teasing or showing her authority. She came to the reception with a male friend of her and I found out that there where just friends from the elementary school (I used the how do you know each other question). I included also that guy in my game by having him qualify her or to increase the degree of my neg/tease . For example when I asked her from where does her name derive after her reply I teased her by asking her name is she were a boy (solid routine). After here reply I started tease her by calling her with his boy name etc Anyway she was responding well to my kino escalation by touching and realizing my touch easily. We danced together some traditional local dances, laughed a lot etc. So at a certain moment we took a picture together. I put my arm around the back and started to touch her hand very softy (you know what I mean for that) bringing her very close to me. My hands were not supposed to be in the picture since we were sited behind a table and she reacted well. She put her arm around my shoulder. When the picture was done I showed to her and said’’ That is a nice picture, isn’t ?“ She smiled and agreed. Then I said ‘’ Ok How could I send it to you? ‘’ I had a piece of paper with me and I asked her to write down her details. She wrote me her email address but when I asked her also for the number she told me no ‘’no I do not give my number so easily . I am a hard to get chick’’ . I left that frame as it was for the moment thinking to try again later for the number which was wrong Some time later I saw the person I had gone to the reception with their car they were about to leave . Those people came to me and told me that we were leaving at that moment say 2 hours before the original plan but still was late but not that late. Then tried again for the number saying ‘’look what if the email address is wrong of have another problem to send you the picture ? I will call you to arrange that with you ‘’ say replied ‘’no I do not give my number so easily . I am a hard to get chick’’ . The I said ‘’Ok just now stop the bullshits. I have eaten girls like you for breakfast’’. Then I said to his male friend .’’You should merry this girl so she will stop to cause me further troubles’’’ Then I asked her out the next day she said was going to be out of town etc. I did not believe her and told her ‘’ You are going to lose me ‘’ and I left. I think at that point I came out as a needy or other and destroyed a large part of the game. The following day we met her at a coffee shop for 5 minutes. II was walking in she was about to leave .We said just ‘’ hi’ and that was all.
Now the question is how to move on. We leave in different cities and it take about a day of travel from my location to her city by train/ship and 1 hour of flight/ She is a dentist so it was easy to found her work number.
I am thinking of the following options.
Send her by email the picture with a nice text. Nonetheless I don’t know what to write.
B) Call her at her office which may be sound strange. I would like to avoid to give her the impression of a needy guy as well as to start to feel unsafe. Besides she might be be busy when I will call her and freeze me out.
c) Send at her office’s address the picture by regular mail along with my old business card (my website is down anyway). Nonetheless, it is not very usual to send business cards here in my country and again I don’t know what to write on the back
d) Something else not thought at the moment
I forgotten to say the best man ‘s wife( a hb 9 got married like 30 days ago) leaves in my hometown. Her husband may come to the city to leave and we agreed to go out sometime together. Anyway having them in my social cycle with further target to may be an option but that is a long and uncertain path
Please suggest what to do.