Re: Advice needed on how to keep relationships
To address your weak area, which is conflict, I do have one question. Have you ever tried to talk out the issues with your partner. Having her simply bitch and complain about everything while you are trying to give her the almighty Cupcake of Appeasement is not the way to go. No healthy relationship consists of that. It is the wisest decision to take the time to put yourself in her shoes and understand where she is coming from. After that, you two can talk out the issue to a consensus where the two of you benefit. If after a while you notice that she is just a psychotic looney-controlist, then it's time to make her an ex.
On another note, it's always good to keep things fresh in a relationship. Flirt with her and game her as if you don't already have her, because you usually use your best moves when you are trying to get her, and that is what hooks her onto you. I suspect everyone else on the forums will have some additional things to throw in, so they can take it away
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X