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Thread: Is she just Farking with me?

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    Default Is she just Farking with me?

    I went on three dates. Have only k-closed. 2nd date was heavy kissing. It was fun but got cut short and she said she agreed we should meet up again soon. Asked her out once spontaneously and fun-like but she was busy the next day so it wouldn't work.

    So next time I asked her out she was actually out of town. I just played it cool and told her I'd leave her be since she would be busy. Texted her 5 days later with a fun food pic and caption. No response. And then coincidentally I had the same thing the next day but a way better dish so I sent it again like "ready for a magic trick..."

    No response. But that night she logs into the dating site we met from, and views my profile. Then the next day she plays me back in this phone game we played periodically since we met. I didn't do anything and just texted her the day after (today) and asked if she was back in town, but being fun and lighthearted of course.

    No response! Then a few hours later she pokes me in the phone game and I get 2 notifications she's waiting for me to play. So I decided to play back, maybe her phone was lost and she sent a message (she plays it on an tablet), way too hopeful hahah. Anyway, I waited til I was off work in 30 mins and played and sent her a message throught he game she would get next time she played it just said something like 'Geeez I played, settle down haha! I have an awesome idea to discuss so call me...'

    What is going on here? Is she just teasing me? Over it? Or nervous? My phone is not working when it sends to her? I don't get what's happening. I mean it seems like she's trying to put me off now, but why would she keep doing little things to show she's at least aware of me still?

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    Default Re: Is she just Farking with me?

    She's stringing you along. After 4 consecutive attempts to contact her with no response I think you should drop her. Definitely stop playing whatever online game you play with her. You gotta risk losing them to catch them. You messaging her even after she has gone out of her way to ignore you lowers your value in her eyes. It shows you are needy and have no other options (I am not saying this is the case, but she will think that). Wait to see if she responds and let us know.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Is she just Farking with me?

    Honestly bro, I choose not to play games this heavily. Flirting and what not is one thing, but as mentioned above if you want to bullshit around and play games like that I don't have the time for it. I can be texting someone that enjoys my conversation and putting effort into them. I can be doing my school work, practicing my guitar or any other number of things.

    Don't feel bad we have all been there, just remember if she does contact you make her work for your attention.
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    Default Re: Is she just Farking with me?

    She didn't respond ever. It's Tuesday now and that all summed up last Wednesday. I've just been freezing out, but not really because she hasn't sent anything for me to ignore lol. I have something loaded in the clip for this weekend to ping test her but I'm assuming yall are right and she's just stringing me along at this point.

    If you have any advice for getting her to respond and sparking her interest again (then I will freeze out if it works and goes well) then I'd be more than happy to listen.

    And for the record I am texting other girls. 5 others right now actually so I've been trying to space things out, but really it wouldnt be a problem to game them all constantly 7 days a week if they were that interested.

    It takes me all of 2 minutes to think of a response and decide when I'm going to send it. I could technically have 20 girls to talk to a day and still have time to get back to them all relatively quickly if I was that needy. I try to tell girls this on first dates too, but I don't think they ever make the connection. The problem is that I type and text extremely fast (mainly due to my job) so I just naturally write a ton of stuff in the time it would take most people to write just a little bit. And I'm also a minor fan of details and vocab to an extent so a lot of my texts are long and I also can send multiple quickly...haha. It's really a bad habit, but it's just the way I am. I just add silly details and spice things up for fun all the time with stupid puns and shit. It's usually not hard for me at all to make a girl laugh and text back fun imaginative things as well.

    This girl has been pretty dull since the beginning though. Like even when she was showing CRAZY attention to me, that was like her texting a pic, asking me how my day was, and maybe putting 3 ha's and 1 smiley in an entire 30 min rapid fire convo. But I can say that even so she was still really interested and wanted me bad. She would constantly tell me stories about how her work clients would say how she's such a good catch and guys should be at her feet but how it's not true because no guys are at her feet. Shit she was begging for the first kiss demanding a second date. So that lead to making out and what not. Then ever since that man...whew I just have no idea. Things got weird. There was a third date. It got cut short. But she did let me kiss her during it and after and tried to give me tongue but I just kept it simple to not get all needy like since she was leaving early. She agreed we should meet up again soon when I mentioned it, but ya, two weeks later now and still havent seen her and barely any talking :// When she was responding she was just dull, short, and distant, and responses were a crap shoot. I really never changed frame much. I just always act enthusiastic and try to tell her fun things and get her talking. Oh well. I really wish she'd contact me first. I feel like that would be the only way to know she was really interested. If she doesn't I think it's just a lost cause so why chase. I'm really doubting even ping testing this coming weekend. Why even bother?

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    Default Re: Is she just Farking with me?

    That is exactly why I hate online dating. Girls who get no attention whatsoever sign up for online dating and then wow they get attention from some online men! 99% of times they cannot handle it and start doing serial dating! I promise while you are worrying that why did not she text you she is making out with a douche! Forget her and move on!

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    Default Re: Is she just Farking with me?

    ^its time to move on, the attraction has faded. You hardly hear this in the PUA community, but everyone looses girls from time to time, attraction fades. It happens. Moments are simply that, moments. I have a girl that still hits me up from time to time, but I have said multiple times we should hang out, she wants to and has told me she wants to, but never makes the time. I see her out with her friends and stuff all the time, so I know she gets out. Does this bother me? Of course not. I'm not any kind of priority to her, so why does she get my limited time?

    Move on bro, forget her, even if she messages you. If she sends two or three messages of a period of time, then try to reinitiate, other than that forget it. She is wasting YOUR time and energy.
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    Default Re: Is she just Farking with me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    ^its time to move on, the attraction has faded. You hardly hear this in the PUA community, but everyone looses girls from time to time, attraction fades. It happens. Moments are simply that, moments. I have a girl that still hits me up from time to time, but I have said multiple times we should hang out, she wants to and has told me she wants to, but never makes the time. I see her out with her friends and stuff all the time, so I know she gets out. Does this bother me? Of course not. I'm not any kind of priority to her, so why does she get my limited time?

    Move on bro, forget her, even if she messages you. If she sends two or three messages of a period of time, then try to reinitiate, other than that forget it. She is wasting YOUR time and energy.
    I agree. I just didn't read anything right. I was too happy to find a possible LTR that when she threw me the LMR during the make-out I probably playedi t wrong, and then probably should've froze out to not be needy but kept talking to her just as much after that date. That's my opinion on where things STARTED to go downhill. I have no regrets or issues with it.

    I'm just a very optimistic person and like to try at things that still have chances. You know. Like if the game sitll has a 10% chance of me winning. I want to play it. Why? Because I like the challenge, and I'm expecting to lose, but in that second wind I might learn something new. Also guys, if you can tell it's flat out over with a girl (sort of like this) it really can never hurt to go total AFC with her just at the very end to MAYBE get some insight and help with your game.

    I'm still going to poke her with a text this weekend. If she doesn't respond I'm going to wait 1 week and then try to ask something like "I want to understand what happened between us". Some girls just take that as your final card and don't even flop their hand, they just rake the pot and move on. Other's have the dignity to show their hand and might give you a little insight as to what happened. Like I said. If you had 0 chance at that point anyway, a little insight could never hurt.

    Thanks for the help though. I really appreciate it. She probably isn't really macking all sorts of guys right now, but I know she's going to get her own place within the next month or so and then she will probably find a quick hook up yes. In my mind I should've just froze out a couple weeks after the fun make out session. She'd probably be texting me all sorts by now. Next time!

    I got plenty of other girls to game so whatever. Basically as soon as I k-close the next one I'll be clear of any lingering one-itis that was brewing from this one. The object is really to not have one-itis at all I know. So that's my ultimate goal here. Stomp it out. Fuck up with as many girls as I have to until I'm so sick of having one-itis that I just can't anymore. Then I have a feeling all these n-closes will have a much higher f-close rate behind them from then onward.


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