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    Default Need some advice in general

    I'm relearning the ropes after a few terrible relationships.. I've got the basics down such as body language, getting attention from the group and exuding confidence. I feel good ya know? I had planned on playing the field but I met this girl, she... is just great. I don't even want to have sex with hot babes, I just want to be with her man. She's an HB8 by looks, but her personality makes her seem more like an 11.
    We've met a few times at my buddies get together's (who is also my drummer). She kept looking over at me, a lot. We seemed to have made a few connections, good eye contact and we have a lot in common. I'm pretty sure she's into me, it was almost as if the whole night at the party she was open to what ever I was had to say.

    I think I handled it well, but I where should I go from here? How do I escalate things without coming across needy in a group setting? Do I wink at her? Ask her for her number at a seemingly appropriate time and then after a little texting game ask for the date?

    Need advice guys, I'm counting on you all.

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    Default Re: Need some advice in general

    I'd go with :Ask her for her number at a seemingly appropriate time and then after a little texting game ask for the date? Get her to put it in your phone.

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    Default Re: Need some advice in general

    I'm just shooting in the dark here, I have no idea what the hell I'm doing.

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    Default Re: Need some advice in general

    Hey RW,

    Where and when are you going to see her again?

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    Default Re: Need some advice in general

    Next party perhaps, I'm worried I'll lose momentum if my bud doesn't have another get together reasonably soon.

    Wanted to get her # but I drank too much and ended up leaving before. Was going to reach her on facebook but she's hardly on.

    One thing though, is she's straight forward and I can tell she digs bad boys who know what they want (I play that game very well)

    I just don't know how to approach the situation and make this happen without coming off as a AFC.

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    Default Re: Need some advice in general

    Hey RW,

    I think you're putting way too much meaning on the interaction here. that's why you're so afraid of coming off as an AFC. If you can reframe the interaction you'll relax and it will make things a lot easier i.e. it's really just another girl who has sparked your interest and she'll be lucky to have you.

    Way I see it 2 options here.

    1. Get her number from a mutual friend and call her up. Don't spend too much time on the phone. A few pleasantries, get the date and you're set. This will maintain the momentum. The phone call itself should show enough confidence to warrant the date; or

    2. At the next party, don't get too drunk and go and talk to her. This is the comfort stage. Just talk about normal things until she's hooked i.e. is contributing to the conversation. Don't put any pressure on her until she's hooked and u won't come off as an AFC. Once she's hooked break the social comfort. This will build attraction. e.g. Pretend she said something you don't like and take her hand and slap it lightly, or tease her and from there u should be ok.

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