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Thread: Walmart cashier first contact... Feedbacks needed

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    Default Walmart cashier first contact... Feedbacks needed

    Well after number closing this HB cashier at Walmart, I started texting her today and this is how it went:

    Me: Hey there, how's my favorite Walmart cashier doing today? Bet she is snooping through people groceries again lol. 1.52pm
    HB: I'm good. Getting off. You? 2.15pm

    Me: Recovering from last night lol. Planning on heading out to play soccer later on. What sport are you into 5.02pm
    HB: Didn't invite me for a drink I see. And I don't have time for sports babe. Between work school and my grandparents. 5.03pm

    Me: Family oriented huh!?! I like that, you just earned 50 cool points; but wait, you not into sport?? Man you just lost a 100 cool points lol. you back to the negative zone now not good!!! 7.22pm. *here I was trying to get her to qualify herself, which I think she did in the next text*
    HB: I love football. I'm a Georgia fan though.. I didn't say I wasn't into sports.. I said I don't have time for sports myself. Like physically play them..I love to watch sports.. lol 7.26pm

    Me: what??? I'm a GaTech fan, yellow jackets all day!! Lol I don't think this "us" thing gonna work out, miss Georgia fan. We gon have to settle this divorce in court. Lol I take the house and the cars, and you get the kids and the dog. Fair enough 😉 8.44pm *here, was trying to get the texting in another direction, but her answer was not what I've expected*
    HB: Haha. Cool. Sounds good. I can deal with that!! 8.45pm

    Me: Yay!! we have an agreement, awesome. Time to kick start pre-game and get ready for the night, talk to you later Brittany 😊 9.06pm *feeling that the conversation was fizzling out, I just decided to eject and start a new thread next time maybe*
    HB: OK. Ttyl. 9.07pm

    What do you guys think I did for a first contact? Is there anything I could have improved? How did I do overall?
    Thanks for looking into it, and the feedbacks
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    Default Re: Walmart cashier first contact... Feedbacks needed

    Maybe act a little less needy, and maybe shorten the texts somewhat (though she's typing at about the same length).

    It seems like she likes you, though. So it's all good.

    Good luck!
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    Default Re: Walmart cashier first contact... Feedbacks needed

    You did really well.

    When she qualified herself with, " Didn't invite me for a drink I see"

    You could have responded." Hey, I just met you I am not that easy" or "A drink? where are you taking me?"

    With either of those messages you have a date. This girl likes you. Be the Alpha.

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    Default Re: Walmart cashier first contact... Feedbacks needed

    Quote Originally Posted by ED11356 View Post
    Maybe act a little less needy, and maybe shorten the texts somewhat (though she's typing at about the same length).

    It seems like she likes you, though. So it's all good.

    Good luck!
    Thanks for the input ED, but how did I act needy? I always try to avoid that at all cost reason why I take way more time to text back a women but at the same time I try to vary my response time. But maybe you see something I don't so help me here.
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    Default Re: Walmart cashier first contact... Feedbacks needed

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    You did really well.

    When she qualified herself with, " Didn't invite me for a drink I see"

    You could have responded." Hey, I just met you I am not that easy" or "A drink? where are you taking me?"

    With either of those messages you have a date. This girl likes you. Be the Alpha.
    Thanks Dave, when she said something about the drinks I treated it like a fake IOI so I stayed cool and just kinda brush it off, so it won't seems that I'm easy or tried to act more challenging so I didn't say anything or jump on it. But your two answers are really smooth and put the pressure back on her. I wish I had either one of those messages in stores when she said it lol oh well now I do for future references.
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    Default Re: Walmart cashier first contact... Feedbacks needed

    I think the texts were too long, came off as a bit needy. You did well in the sense that this stuff probably would have created nice flirty tension between you two in PERSON but not via text. Keep them short, and jerky.

    Also, as Dave said, she had that date in mind before you did. You needed to address that in my opinion.

    Be less needy when you reopen her. Good luck man


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