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    johnnybob62 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Exclamation I'm sick of it! Need some real advice.

    Alright guys, I am just strait up pissed right now.

    I am home from college, and there are no girls here. No where to go party, nothing, My town is shot.

    I am getting really pissed, seeing couples walk passed me, seeing couples in movies, seeing guys hook up with girls, seeing condom commercials...Yeah it sounds stupid but its all getting to my head. I am getting frustrated!

    I am going back to college in a month. How can I prepare myself, get back in the zone. I need help with college day game and night game opening/closing.

    I know i sound like an AFC but barely seeing/talking to girls all summer will do that to you!

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    Default Re: I'm sick of it! Need some real advice.

    Practice, practice, PRACTICE.

    I don't know your local geography but if your town blows, jump on a bus and get the next one along. If you live in a rural community 800 miles away from civilization? Wait 'til college and go balls out in your return. There's plenty of options, but the only way to keep the skills sharp is to praaaaactice.

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    johnnybob62 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I'm sick of it! Need some real advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lunchbox View Post
    Practice, practice, PRACTICE.

    I don't know your local geography but if your town blows, jump on a bus and get the next one along. If you live in a rural community 800 miles away from civilization? Wait 'til college and go balls out in your return. There's plenty of options, but the only way to keep the skills sharp is to praaaaactice.
    Practice what? I feel like i need someone with me to give me a push the first time, show me what to do, then i can get going on my own.

    Any kind of like list, not necessarily a guide but something to get me started? Maybe something that will be like..."start off by saying hi to a girl" "next ask her this" "then take it from there and do this"

    Idk, i just feel so off my game and confused being home.

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    Default Re: I'm sick of it! Need some real advice.

    There's a book called "Rules of the game" that involves a 30 day challenge. I think it involves meeting women, talking to them, etc. Maybe something that can get you started.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: I'm sick of it! Need some real advice.

    I was in the same position as you a few months ago. I believed that in a town like mine, there was nothing to do, no one to go out and meet. You quickly discover that when you get around town and figure out about all of the events that go on in the city, you couldn't be more wrong.

    It's just a matter of getting outside of your box to see what there is. As these guys said, if you can't find anything to do in your hometown, hop in the car and go somewhere else. If you aren't able to do that, work on your text game. I've actually been doing a lot of reading this summer, and I can say it keeps my mind well occupied.

    Your problem is entirely mental. You're letting the drought get to your head and screw up your conscious. It's a matter of overcoming this desire through meantime occupation.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: I'm sick of it! Need some real advice.

    hey guys, just a little update.

    i met my sisters coworker/friend at my sisters party a week ago, but i was only there for like 30 min and then left.

    my sister is being stupid (siblings lol) and wont hook me up with her, would it be weird if i messaged her on fb?

    if not, what could i say?

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    Default Re: I'm sick of it! Need some real advice.

    I would say yes message her/poke her but don't reveal your intentions for now. Chat with her and build attraction then ask to meet up. I've had a few updates like this before


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