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    Default Help Responding to Girl I Want AND Her Older Sister

    -This happened last Week-

    Met a family friend who is 28. I'm 21.

    After hanging talking for a little while she insisted on introducing me to her 20 year old younger sister.

    Things went well over the dinner between the four of us (28 year old brought a friend too). Ended up exchanging numbers.

    Texted her a few days later and then she asked me to come snorkeling with her the upcoming sunday at 1030 am (it was wednesday).

    We spoke very briefly until saturday, exchanging just a text or two Thur and Fri, when she texted "You better not bail tomorrow morning!" on Saturday.

    Well long story short I get this text Sunday at 930, "Heu "Unstoppable".. might hqvta go a diff day its supppsed.tp.storm"

    There was a 30% chance of rain that the forecast was for all week and every day it was slightly cloudy. That sunday it was pretty sunny too. No rain.

    I wrote back "kk". I was pissed because she not only told me not to bail, but when she did bail, she wrote like a 4 year old that didn't even wake up and check to see the nice day outside.

    No communication since that message last sunday morning, however her older sister wrote to me last night saying "Hang wih Michelle!!"

    What does this mean? And what's a good way to respond to the older sister, and start back up with the younger one as well?

    PS: I have another account on here. Thanks for all the help guys. I went into a little slump and want to start fresh.

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    Default Re: Help Responding to Girl I Want AND Her Older Sister

    Hey unstoppable,

    I wouldn't respond to older sister. at least not until you see where you stand with youngster.

    So, text 20 year,"Hey I just saw someone that reminded me of you, omigod it was so funny..."

    Leave the loop open. People are naturally curious. she should be thinking "what happened that reminded me of him" and she should reply. something like "what." Keep the loop open. don't tell her. just say, "Haha, it was hilarious. Tell you when I see u. so tell me about your exciting week..."

    now if it doesn't pan out like this then at least you know where you stand. Important here to not let it affect you. she's just one of many my friend.

    good luck. Let me know how it goes.

    rs5096

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    Default Re: Help Responding to Girl I Want AND Her Older Sister

    One of many, excellent advice. I also agree you need to know where you stand with her. Throw her the cliffhanger and see what happens.

    As far as her sister, I wouldn't ignore her completely. Respond playfully.. "michelle who...i have to check my busy schedule "

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    Default Re: Help Responding to Girl I Want AND Her Older Sister

    Never responded to sister. Posting this late, but wrote the day after exactly what you said (I thought it was good), and she responded to the first message exactly like we thought she would.

    After the follow up about her week, no reply. Clearly she wasn't interested haha, but no worries.

    Thanks for the advice regardless!

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    Default Re: Help Responding to Girl I Want AND Her Older Sister

    Quote Originally Posted by Unstoppable View Post
    Never responded to sister. Posting this late, but wrote the day after exactly what you said (I thought it was good), and she responded to the first message exactly like we thought she would.

    After the follow up about her week, no reply. Clearly she wasn't interested haha, but no worries.

    Thanks for the advice regardless!
    That pisses me off too! haha, well im not sure on the whole age difference between you and the older sister that will have something you will have to work with, andddd it being her younger sister haha. But, I sort have had this happen to me my freshman year of college. I was talking to my friends cousin, and she was very pretty, however her cousin (not my friend, another one of her cousins) was smoking beautiful. I mean, perfect body, unique face, super white teeth, the whole 9 yards, and she was cool as hell also. So I would text her, the cousin, and "ask for advice" on her cousin, all the time keeping the texts flirty with her, but still showing that I was interested in her cousin as well. I think this probably gave her confusion, but she had a cool attitude and she was in to me so we kept it going. Anyway, I hooked up with the girl I was talking to and we dated briefly. Then it ended. The girl was boring, any intimate times was like being with a dead fish haha. So I started talking to the cool hot girl that I kept on the back burner. What can I say, everything snapped together perfectly. Long stories short I ended up doing her with her cousin in my apartment in the next room. She fell for me and I could tell dead fish in the other room was pissed, but she is the one that left me anyway. So here is what I suggest, pick the one you really want, if you want to bang both, do the one you don't want first. Keep the other in your friendzone, flirty all the time remember that, be fun. Say your interested in the one you don't want, but flirt with the one you do, acting as if she is your friend will give her all kinds of crazy signals in that female brain of hers haha.


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