Re: boy friend.............. ..................
Yea you want BF destroyers, but I think you should first continue as if he doesn't exist. If she didn't bring him up then you shouldn't be the first one. Let it come up later THEN use a bf destroyer.
Personally I don't like to mess with women who have bfs. I do it once in awhile, but more often than not I just make them a wingman. They introduce you to their friends and makes it much easier to get hook ups and if she is ever single then you can pick her up. There's no right or wrong answer if you should approach this or not. It's up to you and your standards. And if you decide not to chase her than you are not weak for it. Always have standards.
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