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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Fix a bad impression

    Sometimes when you stop midway coming back makes you look like you want to just..etc.
    in your case you need send her a text along these lines.
    you may have this if you want.if you don't take this a bit seriously and get it handled you will never have all of her.it could kill your chances a lifetime.

    we won't delve..theres more to me than

    What this text should do is get her mind of the fact that you are about that.trust me girls minds are fast and she may capture it.
    you may later reengage with with an emotionally charged thread.

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    Default Re: Fix a bad impression

    Thanks HardRock
    Do you think I have to wait till 21st day or I better text her now? Can you give me a sample text please? I don't have any idea how to convey the message you explained above

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    Default Re: Fix a bad impression

    "we won't delve..theres more to me than"

    What this text should do is get her mind of the fact that you are about that.trust me girls minds are fast and she may capture it.
    you may later reengage with with an emotionally charged thread.

    Do you think I have to wait till 21st day or I better text her now?
    Get part one handled then you can reengage later.21 days is a bit lengthy it may take minimal time to build attraction.she may be thinking all you want is to.. that is one of your sticking points so that answer is fix that.then you can proceed building from there.

    The text to send should not lead to an interaction.if she asks questions you may blog about it here.then we may go for the second.

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    Default Re: Fix a bad impression

    OK I reply on my own post to share my experience:

    After 21 days of being silent and not communicating with the HB, and posting fun pics on Facebook showing that I am a very cool guy who is having fun already, I sent this text to HB:

    Hey [her name] , how have you been? I am going to Chinese gardens this weekend and you are welcome to come along. which day is better for you, Saturday or Sunday?

    next morning she texted: Good morning [my name] how are you? I think tomorrow is better. What do you think?

    And I replied a couple of hours later: Yes Sunday 1 pm sounds good to me. I will pick you up from your address. see you!

    Next day at 1 pm I was there and I called her saying that I was there. She said she had not replied and she was surprised that I had not waited for her reply! I said I had made a statement and not a question so I did not need her response :-))

    We ended up going out for a few hours and during that time I received IOIs. e.g. she used my names frequently , touched my arm, gave me her mobile phone when (unlocked) several times etc. She apologized for denying my last invitation (which I took as an indication of low-interest and so I decided to give her a treatment!).

    During the date my goal was to interrupt his picture of me by teasing her and taking her through an emotional roller coaster. e.g. when I was at her door she said "give me 10 minutes" and I said "9 minutes is enough for you". Or I said "if you be a good girl I will take you to dinner some time". I also avoided any excessive touch because that was my mistake on the first date and my aim on the second date was to change her perception of me. On the first date she had thought that I wanted her for sex only. She said to me "You see me as a woman only and not as a person" (meaning that you want me for sex only). I said "OK as of now I will see you as a man, and I am going to call you Jean Valjean". :-) Although I teased her with this ,I know it'll be my job to make her sure I am not after sex only (because I really am not).

    At the end of the night she locked another date with me!

    The learning was that: Pattern Interrupt tactic works if done properly. There are also two advantages in it: 1- If during the 21 day silence she does not find another guy then she will know you are her best choice and won't flake on you. 2- You will have 21 days to think if you really want her and was she really that special? Now I am not really as keen as before plus that I have some other options too .

    Hope this experience helps you too


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