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    kingkarl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with a friend from college

    I've known this girl since Sept., didn't try to make a move on her since she had a bf until about March, but I've started to like her. We share the same social circle and talk a fair bit at school, but we don't text at all or hang out outside of our college interactions. What would be your advice on trying to create attraction with a girl who probably only sees you as a friend? (although hasn't friendzoned you)

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    Default Re: Need help with a friend from college

    Many ways really. What is your honest status within the group? Are you seen as an Alpha leader? Also, how well accepted are you with other females in the group?

    These questions are just to get an idea. In my opinion in group situations if you demonstrate higher value to her she will be more easily receptive to you.

    You should nonetheless take initiative and organize a mid summer party. invite the group for a night out of drinks and shit and make your move there.

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    kingkarl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with a friend from college

    I wouldn't say I'm the alpha male, because I'm new to this and kind of an introvert so I don't tend to take charge, although I'm working on that. She's invited me to 2 events she's helped planned with the university, but I wasn't able to make it to either (short notice, sick). Thanks for your response by the way, much appreciated

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    Default Re: Need help with a friend from college

    Well, you declined twice, which at least doesn't make you look EAGER to meet her. Good.

    Again, agree to one of her events, or make one of your own. Then start working the group from there.


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