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    Default Should I Text Her Again

    One of my friends texted me yesterday and said "let's hang out". I told her I was busy the next few days and said let's get a drink on Thursday. I haven't heard back from her. Should I text her again?

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    Default Re: Should I Text Her Again

    Wait a few days before you text

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    Default Re: Should I Text Her Again

    Ok if she said "lets get a drink Thursday" text today and you haven't replied then yes, reply. Like this coming Thursday? or was this last Thursday im not sure. Also if she is initiating this I think your in the clear so by all means text her, waiting might be too late and she will be tired of it

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    Default Re: Should I Text Her Again

    Na. You kinda failed a sh1t test it seems to me. Being busy was good, but jumping to set the date up was bad? You could've done better is what I'm saying. Maybe tell her you want to go rob a bank on thursday and you need a get-away driver. Then told her to call you wednesday night for an overview of the plan.

    See the difference between that and "yah lets go get a drink thursday". If you wanted to go that route I still would've at least just said Yah I'm busy the next few days, maybe thursday though, keep in touch and I'll let you know. Bye for now dork!

    I mean at least that's somewhat enthusiastic but also not giving her a definitive yes on the spot. Instead you've kind of said, "text me again between now and then and we'll talk more" i.e. if she doesn't text you, you aren't expecting to do anything thursday and will probably make different plans. And if she texts you on thursday, it's a 50/50 you can answer or not, but anytime after that (friday onward) you should respond a few days later as if you were busy and then make her work for your attention from there, don't jump into any date or hang out offers.

    Hopefully that covers some thoughts bouncing around. I'm no expert man, but I have been taking notes and this is just my best opinion from what you've given me.

    Edit: to answer your question directly though, since all the stuff above was just explaining what you should've done, the way the chips lie now you should just text her wednesday night, be fun, and ask her if she wants to meet up the next night.

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    Default Re: Should I Text Her Again

    Oh I totally read that wrong, haha sorry about that. Yeah I agree with Slybootsucci on some things, but I don't believe in telling her to text me, that just lets her know that you are waiting on her. Which you didn't say that so that's good, but I say wait until Wednesday or something if she hasn't texted by then then shoot her a text, if she doesn't text back at that point shrug it off and keep on keeping on


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