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Thread: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

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    Default asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    first off id like to start off with i've already slept with the girl that i had presumed i had a date for

    me and this girl have known each other for awhile but never been real close, i had invited her over on 4th of july but she never got back to me, next day she asked what i was doing to which i replied drinking and chilling watching movies at home, at which point she came over, we drank and watched movies togeather which lead to the eventual hook up

    pretty much any time i've talked to her about hanging out she wants to see if she can bring her sister, which includeds the one time her and her sister came over when i had few people over for drinks and chilling, and this other time we had talked about going to the movies but never happened

    the thing is earlier today she had talked to me about the fact her sister is leaving soon and for awhile to go do an internship in georgia

    btw i worka at the theatre and could get both of them in for free with no problem

    the way i see it i have a few options

    play the strong card and say that i had really just thought that it was gonna be me and her

    bring a one of my single dude friends and see how things turn out

    just have me take them both to the movie

    or blow it off completely cause it seems like i've been strongly friendzoned
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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    I don't get it? You already fucked her...move on! LOL

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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    If your into her then keep talking, if your into hooking up then tell her peace out. If you are into her then bring a dude friend to take care of her sister so she doesn't become a third wheel cock block, she could be trying to drag her sister along because maybe she thinks you just want to get her alone and hook up, cause she is thinking, "man we did it that time, maybe that's all he wants" if so she probably likes you and doesn't want it to lead to that yet

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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    I don't get it? You already farked her...move on! LOL
    Lol ^ I pretty much agree

    Only amendment I'd add is keep her in your FZ if she's cool. Looks like she likes you as a friend, and slept with you as a friend; but now she doesn't want to make things awkward by sleeping together again. So she invites her sister along to make sure it's clear that nothing is gonna happen.

    If you go in strong then she'll probably flake.

    If you tell her you'll invite a few buddies as well then that gets her back to being a friend again.

    But either way she seems to have decided that she won't sleep with you again. It's gonna be easier to seduce a girl from scratch than to get out of the FZ
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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    wow that was actually really fast

    i appreciate the feedback from all of you , espicially as fast as you all did

    after the time we hooked up she had said something about doing sushi once though which makes me wonder about the friendzone and date thing still

    honestly me and her don't know each other other all too well so i could see the point that PUcowboy is making, cause over all id like to get to actually know her better
    on the other hand i see that i could be potentially screwed all in all and not in the good way lol

    overall i think im gonna agree to go with her and her sister , im gonna try to bring one of my friends and hope for the best but atleast be prepared for the highly probable chance of me not having sex, her sister is leaving though for a good long while so im gonna potentially freeze her out for a little bit after tonight and just see how things go

    worst comes to worse, i've spent only a little bit in gas to go see a movie with a cute girl who ive already hooked up with and her cute sister, all for mostly free
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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    To me it sounds like either she sees you as a friend or she does not trust you (aka you sound creepy to her). I would let her come over with her sister then I would impress her and her sister. If you impress her sister she will tell your favorite girl good things about you, encouraging her to say YES to you. Also you must clear your intentions ASAP or you will get drowned in her friend zone.

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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    alrite guys well i ended up going with them, i was already kind of upset at the actual situation when they got here which kind of put me in a bad state/mood, i was going to just try to smile and front my way through it which i ended up finding hard to believe and then....

    when they got here i got put in the back seat.....when we got to the movie the girl i had gotten with put the arm rest down between us...at that point i just was pretty upset was kind of terrible time and the movie sucked


    im giving her a week and half, two weeks, to text me with something awesome...cause of all this she skipped my friend zone and has this time to make sure she dosent make it to my...DEAD TO ME ZONE
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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    Aaron my opinion is that if you want her you must be a man and while you clear your intentions you must be persistent. Call her and tell her you want to take her out without anybody else. Whatever her answer be, you will know where are you at.

    Also, an alpha male never reacts to what the girl does. You should not have become upset.

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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    you have a good pint there sir, im not sure if i have a real reason to be as heated as i currently am, it really wasn't that much of a big deal cause like i said i didn't really put any of my money on the line just kind of my time

    if anything i think the next move is to wait a few days text her and see whats up if she dosent text me first

    the only thing is if i do want to hit her up, and i would be texting instead of calling since its kind of the social norm for my age group, should i invite her on another date or what, sushi is kind of expensive and i don't wont to waste my time and money and effort into something that seems hopeless......i could just hit her up about just hanging out and watching a movie at my house which is how things happened the first time we got together

    my biggest fear is that this girl is just kind of using me, this past time she used me for her and her sister to see a free movie, this is a bit of a crazy theory but hear me out, i met this girl at school two year which is in w.v., while at school she told me she wasn't coming back for this past year but that her and her family were moving to the area a good amount of time passed since i had talked to her and i was in a relationship with this other girl until earlier this summer when me and that girl had broken up. she texted me about hanging out and if you read previously, the day after the 4th of july thing happened, ever since then shes only had interest in hanging out or what im doing when i've been going out or had other people around or wants to do stuff with her sister....my theory is that this girl had sex with me to bait me so that she could use me as like a way to get to parties and social stuff around the area and make new friends and for free movies so that her and her sister could not be bored in this new area where they don't know to many people still..i know like i said seems kind of crazy but thats what really comes to mind.......honestly im fine if she wants to use me for free movies and a way into new social circles, as long as she keeps sleeping with me though which has only happened the one time so far

    as a side note....my alpha male state of mind/ confidence levels have only recently been starting to rise....and i think that tonight really set it back a bit
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    Default Re: asap please! thought i had a date but she wants to bring her sister?

    You should have been the one to playfully put distance sort of to mess with her.this could have made her feel comfortable.The sister thing was a shit test and also an indication of well...you could have turned this round.She may bring someone along again be UNFAZED.


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