So, me and my friend met these 2 girls on a night out in a different city and they ended up coming back to our hotel. at first we were both just 'wing maning' our friends, but we ended up getting along fooled around a bit. she was obviously shy with 4 people in the room and didn't want to go any further.
all 4 of us tried to meet up the following week but they kind of flaked, figured that was that. Then she started texting me again and I asked her to meet me for drinks the following week. she agreed, then changed it into a night out with some of her friends....
we ended up back at her friends house alone in a room, I went to grab a condom and when I came back she said she wanted to have sex but wasn't sure.... I continued to foreplay ect but didn't wanna come off as rapey so we ended up just talking. she said she has never had sex outside of a relationship and was confused, then she gave me a blowjob and we went to sleep....
Anyway next day she texts me
her: 'oh my god, my neck is covered in love bites'
me: 'i guess i got a bit carried away '
5 days later ( i had been meaning to text sooner but never got round to it so i wasnt sure how to re open)
me: i have bad news for you
her: which is?
me:north korea is nuking us, but the good news is you can make last minute passionate love with me and we can die together
that was 3 days ago, When we last met we had been talking most of the night about relationships and sex ect, why she doesnt feel comfortable with one night stands.... looking at it now I can see how that text could have been taken the wrong way... especially after i said i would text her that night.
I want to see her again but don't know if i should just leave this now or how i could start a conversation again :/