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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Yea, I'm keeping my distance. I keep dropping off the conversation, and she asked me to do something and I blew her off on that. She's extremely insecure and tries to fight for approval from my Doctor Phil standpoint. She's trying to make herself seem older by saying she turns 17 this month, but still too young for me. Cutoff this entire summer has been 18 to at least give the girl a chance and continue to work my game. As I said before though, I'm more likely to go for someone around my own age.

    Let this be a rule to all the PUAs: If getting the girl means potentially getting into jail, you're doing it all wrong
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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Read this. Afterwards if you have any questions I'll give my opinion.
    Ah, the legendary Batman. I read the article twice.

    You got me laid with two girls last month!

    Ok, so here's what I did. I texted her about reading beforehand, referencing our game where we met on Tuesday, as I've learned here. Remember, I met her playing huge-ass jenga in a bar.

    1.5 days later
    THURSDAY ME: 4:30PM: "Hey its [me]. At [Bar We Originally Met at]. Just saw someone do your 'blow on the jenga stack' move lol

    THURSDAY HER 10:55PM: "Are you back there practicing? Sorry for the late reply! Have a good one!"

    So questions -

    When do I reply? I don't want to do it super quick since she waited so long, besides I was out.

    I was thinking of telling her something like "Maybe, maybe not. Let's hang Sunday night at [cool bar]. Maybe a rematch afterwards if youre lucky."

    Last question: what should my tact be during date? Reaffirming the qualification at some point? Ie "I go for older women?"

    Is that the right tact? She's a better jenga player than I am.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    If you're not busy you text her. If you are then you do whatever it is before you text her. Or.. Of you want to play on her level you just call it a night and talk to her tomorrow.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    That reminds me: she's a nurse and has weird hours.

    Entirely possible she was sleeping when I texted at 4pm

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    I did? I don't remember receiving a commission check :P You'll have to tell me about it.

    Hmmm....I'm not sure if you should shoot an invite. Hard to tell. Personally I like to spark up good conversation before throwing out an invite. If she's in a sad mood and doesn't feel like going out then you risk rejection. But if you are talking and putting her in a fun mood then she's more likely to agree since she has been reminded how fun you are.

    Also think about setting up plans and flaking. I've been doing this lately and it does help increase the chances that she will show up next time.

    Here's my opinion: Get in good conversation. Once you're both laughing say "I forgot how fun you are. You should definitely come out with us tonight." She may mention she has plans. So what. If she says yes then a couple of hours beforehand tell her "Sorry something came up. Maybe tomorrow will be better." Again, I've been having good results with this cause it helps to display non neediness.
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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    First of all, the too young line really does work wonders, but the trick with it is you need to get in there without them realizing what is happening. It is kind of dirty, so usually when I say it I mean it.

    Swag, it does get hard sometimes bro hehe especially when they are chasing you. My friend's sister recently started texting me, she told me she was 18, later in convo asked how old I was. I told her too old her for, and she was qualified like crazy, and still does.

    Turns out she just turned 17, so good thing I meant what I said. For me its the whole annoyance factor. There is no way in hell I can ever have the connection I want with a teenager hehe.
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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    OK *** UPDATE **

    So I decided to text her back an hour later. I figured she wouldn't expect it and I knew she was a nurse on the night shift.

    I felt like I did a great job here, and asked her out once the conversation went well, but not sure if it went south. Please give me your opinion of what I should do next - especially you, BATMAN!

    ME: (THURSDAY) 4:28p - It's me (name) At [cool bar]. Just saw someone do your 'blow on the jenga stack" move - ha!

    HER: (THURSDAY) 10:55p - Are you back there practicing? Sorry for the late reply! Have a good one.

    ME: (FRIDAY) 12:18a - Maaaaayyyybe i was. Now at [2nd bar] Kinda crazy here. you working?

    HER: (FRIDAY) 12:22a -Yes I am. whats your schedule like? Just curious

    ME: (FRIDAY)12:32a - I set my schedule. Even work evenings if out late like tonight. You won't stalk me right?

    HER: (FRIDAY) 12:35 am - Hahahahahahah no. I like your confidence tho.

    ME: (FRIDAY) 12:37 am - Ok whew! Whats your schedule like?

    HER: (FRIDAY) 12:40 am - Three days a week, always different days

    ME: (FRIDAY) 1am - Makes planning fun. Free Sunday night?

    HER: (FRIDAY) *NOTICE WAIT TIME* 2:15 - No, and sorry for texting so late. Family in town this weekend.

    ME: (SATURDAY) 10:35am - Ah I passed out. Big group is going out Sun. No biggie. Lets hang sometime next week.

    NO RESPONSE

    What do I say now? How did I do?

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    I might be wrong but if I were you I would wait for her to respond and then slowly back out. I like to invite girls once every yet convo so that they will think that I don't really care for them to hang. But in this convo I think you looked a little needy ;/

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    I might be wrong but if I were you I would wait for her to respond and then slowly back out. I like to invite girls once every yet convo so that they will think that I don't really care for them to hang. But in this convo I think you looked a little needy ;/
    Shoot -needy - really? Where? Thought i was doing well when she said she liked my confidence.

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    It looks like you did good. You took a while to respond, showing that you weren't really needy and you didn't double text her when she didn't respond for a long time. I would just wait for her to text, even if it takes a day or two.

    This one time, I hung out with this HB at her place and we ended up sleeping with each other. The next day I sent her a text saying I had good time last night (something close to that; can't remember too well). She never texted back and I sure as hell didn't want to text again, making myself look needy, so I just kind of blew it off and thought it was good one night stand.

    2 days later she texted me back asking me to come over. I texted something like, "Take it easy! I'll be over a little later". That night she was really touchy and all over me in front of her friends. I though that was weird, but I guess that's that whole push and pull thing in effect.

    If you don't text her for a couple days, she'll probably start chasing you and trying to arrange a date to meet.


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