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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Quote Originally Posted by Ice Breaker View Post
    It looks like you did good. You took a while to respond, showing that you weren't really needy and you didn't double text her when she didn't respond for a long time. I would just wait for her to text, even if it takes a day or two.

    This one time, I hung out with this HB at her place and we ended up sleeping with each other. The next day I sent her a text saying I had good time last night (something close to that; can't remember too well). She never texted back and I sure as hell didn't want to text again, making myself look needy, so I just kind of blew it off and thought it was good one night stand.

    2 days later she texted me back asking me to come over. I texted something like, "Take it easy! I'll be over a little later". That night she was really touchy and all over me in front of her friends. I though that was weird, but I guess that's that whole push and pull thing in effect.

    If you don't text her for a couple days, she'll probably start chasing you and trying to arrange a date to meet.
    I hope you're right. Keep in mind that my last text was on Friday morning, so it's been 2.5 days already.

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    I meant like it looks like you took your time to respond but you asked her for 2 different times? im just a starter but i think thats bad. me i usually say "ill be avialble next week why dont we go see a movie?" or some shit like that to make it seem my sechdule is full and im busy all the time

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Hey Big T,

    I think you misread. She asked me what my schedule is like, I asked her what hers is like. She responded, then I asked her out.

    Batman, you around to clear all this up?

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Hmmm definitely seems like there's something missing on her part. She seems interested and comfortable enough. Not sure. But I do know a sure-fire way to get her pulled in is to build sexual tension.

    Get her thinking about sex, but never admitting to her that you actually would. I'll literally use words like "it was so hard/wet" but in a normal convo just to bring out her inner pervert. Doesn't matter if she acknowledges it. Sometimes I'll even be goofy enough and respond with "That's what she said." Lmao. Classic.

    I'm going to give away one of my personal classics. The results are 80% positive, but it's safe to pull off.

    While in convo I'll tell her:

    Me: Hey. I wanna send you something.

    Her: Ok/ What is it?/ No naked pics!!

    Me: Are you alone?

    Her: Yes/No

    Me: It's a pic of me in the shower

    Then I'll send this cartoon guy with a showercap and looks like he's singing. Even if she didn't want the pic they always laugh and will at least get her thinking about sex now on top of showing that I like to tease. I've even had women often become mad at me for not sending the real thing lol. Make sure to spread it out to build suspense. Don't do it in one shot.

    Last thing, I feel like the further into the future you make plans with a girl, the more important she is to you. Like if she invited you to a wedding in two months you're obviously important to her.

    So saying you'll meet up next weekend is a bit too much for me. I'll only really do that if I slept with her. Before then I'll set something up for the next day. And it'll usually be something simple like a hangout if it's during the week. Weekends we may do something a bit more active.

    Shit you can even send out an invite asking if she's free in an hour. She may likely say she's busy, but it's not an official flake so no harm. At least that's the way I feel about it.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Hmmm definitely seems like there's something missing on her part. She seems interested and comfortable enough. Not sure. But I do know a sure-fire way to get her pulled in is to build sexual tension.

    Get her thinking about sex, but never admitting to her that you actually would. I'll literally use words like "it was so hard/wet" but in a normal convo just to bring out her inner pervert. Doesn't matter if she acknowledges it. Sometimes I'll even be goofy enough and respond with "That's what she said." Lmao. Classic.

    I'm going to give away one of my personal classics. The results are 80% positive, but it's safe to pull off.

    While in convo I'll tell her:

    Me: Hey. I wanna send you something.

    Her: Ok/ What is it?/ No naked pics!!

    Me: Are you alone?

    Her: Yes/No

    Me: It's a pic of me in the shower

    Then I'll send this cartoon guy with a showercap and looks like he's singing. Even if she didn't want the pic they always laugh and will at least get her thinking about sex now on top of showing that I like to tease. I've even had women often become mad at me for not sending the real thing lol. Make sure to spread it out to build suspense. Don't do it in one shot.

    Last thing, I feel like the further into the future you make plans with a girl, the more important she is to you. Like if she invited you to a wedding in two months you're obviously important to her.

    So saying you'll meet up next weekend is a bit too much for me. I'll only really do that if I slept with her. Before then I'll set something up for the next day. And it'll usually be something simple like a hangout if it's during the week. Weekends we may do something a bit more active.

    sh1t you can even send out an invite asking if she's free in an hour. She may likely say she's busy, but it's not an official flake so no harm. At least that's the way I feel about it.
    Haha. I told her that we'll hangout sometime next week when she said she wasn't free on Sunday. I like your idea of just saying something an hour before it happens. Maybe I'll try that on Wednesday or something. Do you think that would be the best way to go? Right now there is 0 conversation, and so I'm not sure that I have the opportunity to build sexual tension.

    You feel that there is interest on her part?

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    Default Re: Used the "IYoure too Young for Me, but We can Be Friends"....

    Interest is easy to get from a woman. It's basic curiosity. It's attraction that needs to be developed. Part of it is mystery, devalidation, compliance ..... and sexual tension.

    Well if you want to increase your chances you should get into another good convo and possibly leave it on a high note. With no invite. You don't want her to think that every time you talk to her you are sending an invite. Mix it up. Show that you actually like talking to her and don't have an agenda. It helps build comfort. Then after another convo or two send another invite with the intentions of flaking.

    A buddy of mine told me about using a time constraint for a date. I've never thought of this before. Basically tell her you're free after a certain time, but have to be somewhere later and if she'd like to meet for coffee or ice cream in your hour long window of "free time." It's a simple date and she won't feel like she has to spend the whole night with you. Which of course she will once she's in your presence But I'll add in the flake anyways and tell her that something came up.

    So this could be your routine:

    Tues- Start a convo. No invite.

    Wed- Decide to start another convo or go no contact for a day. No invite.

    Thur- More convo build up. Set a date with a time constraint. Flake on her. Tell her maybe tomorrow would be better.

    Fri- You now have a date on Friday with little chance of her flaking while simultaneously keeping her entertained throughout the week with your convo and flaking.

    If she says she can't meet you Thursday for coffee/ice cream then I'd call it off completely and wait until Sunday to set another date for you to flake on.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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