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    Default Best way to take advantage of the insecurities

    Hi guys,

    I have noticed that many girls have real insecurities but they try and hide them. For example I approached a girl and I asked her about her accent. She said: I have a Turkish background..but I was born in Bulgaria!

    To me it sounded as if she was not comfortable with her nationality! Later when I texted her I used some Turkish words but she completely ignored them. Again to me it's an indication of "I hate my nationality" syndrome. I have experienced the same thing with a Polish girl before.

    My question is, what is the best way of taking advantage of such insecurities to my own favor?

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    Default Re: Best way to take advantage of the insecurities

    Simple. By showing them that you understand what they are going through. But not by telling them that you do. Just talk about yourself or your experience about how you feel uncomfortable with your nationality and they will naturally relate and feel you understand them. Don't make it about them, but about you.
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    Default Re: Best way to take advantage of the insecurities

    Thanks Batman but I think there is a confusion here. I don't want to treat her insecurity or devote myself to save her. In my question I wanted to know how to use that insecurity to deflate their big head and bring them down a bit so that they don't think they are the prize.

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    Default Re: Best way to take advantage of the insecurities

    Oh I see. Well you could form it into a neg. "Oh you're fill in blank? I guess that's ok." But be prepared to change the subject right after in case she decides to react and blow you out.

    If she persists to ask why you would say that then I would keep it to myself for a bit just to string her along and keep her curious about you. Let her know you'll tell her later even.
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