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Thread: My crush ignore me and has a boyfriend

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    Default My crush ignore me and has a boyfriend

    Well my story is this
    A few months ago I met a lovely girl in my work. at first it was a normal girl like everyone else I started reading a book called dangerous seduction by Guillermo Palomo and I started applying some techniques in this book which is obviously based on pickup artists, at the beginning I donít believed nothing to this but the results were amazing and she began to like me, she and I worked at the same company, she works on the fourth floor and I in the second

    Only I see her in lunch and sometimes when she need some systems support because Iím support engineer.

    In May she had her birthday and I gave to her some cheap chocolates, just leave them on her office desk, later that day in the morning she didnít know who had given them but in the afternoon I confessed to her that I was had left those chocaletes. I think that was the starting point. After that, she began to show a lot of interest in me, a lot of interest, so that when she heard my voice she turned her head to see me, she was very obvious, I donít chase her just she come to me, then I showed to her a lot of interest and everything began to change for bad , one month after, I decide to call her and ask to her if she wants to date with me, "she say yes!" but the next day in the morning she wrote to by chat that she canít go in our date because her uncle had died.

    I didn't know what thinking about it and just I let it pass, After 20 days passed and I try invite her again, but I made a mistake I show to her so much more interest and it was so evident that his coworkers began to bother me in front of her, then later that day when she was alone I ask to her if we could dating again and just she said to me ďI'll think " the next day (Saturday) I had no response from her only in the evening with a text to my phone telling me" how I had been", just that! I asked again if I wanted to date with me and she answered ďno because I will busy , this was her reply

    since then I knew something was wrong ,but thinking well this topic and tired of so much denial I decided to ask if she had a boyfriend later I asked to her.
    just an indirect question in whatsup but she donít said me any thing about bf openly asked again " do you have a boyfriend?" and she replied "Yes" that response hurt me so much but I check her facebook profile and has not officially published a relationship, just a pictures with a normal guy nothing special, I NEED SOME ADVICE What I can do? I talk to her a lot but nothing special just friends things. What I can do? i let her go?

    please help me and and excuse me for my English

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    Default Re: My crush ignore me and has a boyfriend

    First: Forget her. Second: Take an English class. Third: When you show a lot of interest, she backs off. Stop showing so much interest. Talk to her when you see her, and THAT's IT. Don't text her, don't call her, AKA move on. She's not worth your time, and she most likely doesn't have a boyfriend. After some time has passed, and you check back in on the website, and we have another convo, maybe, just maybe I might say for you to talk to her again. But as for now, completely erase her from existence and start talking to other women.

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    Default Re: My crush ignore me and has a boyfriend

    You shouldn't be worried about it if you have some other women to talk to. Just talk to the others and only be friends with your crush.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: My crush ignore me and has a boyfriend

    Pretty easy to pinpoint where you went wrong, you acted needy and was constantly harping on when you were gonna take her out. She either never liked you that much, or lost interest with your constant neediness. Move on from her (at least for now).
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: My crush ignore me and has a boyfriend

    Try just not thinking about her, talk to your bros and things will start going for the better, trust me these things happened to me a lot on my first month of discovering this pua thing (I'm still asking questions). Chances are if you like her think about other shit try to keep busy. You acted as too needy but if you start not talking to her and start being with your bros more two things will happen.
    1: she will notice you ingoreing her and focusing your attention on other things instead of her and start wanting to talk to you, that happens start talking to her but Dont intiate the convo and do not check your phone every 5 min. Just do your normal shit and hangout with your bros.
    2: she doesn't know you Dont care for her anymore (happens too much to me). And you moved on. Don't worry you'll always meet new girls. And your bros will defiantly help you get them. Chances are your gonna find a better girl that is hotter and better than her.


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