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    aussiearef is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How do I get her back??

    I would say maybe forget about her now and try to find some other girls. If you want to disappear it must be for around three weeks . If you've adder her in your FB, upload some pics of yours with your friends, especially with some hot chicks, and in general upload any pics of yours that shows you are having a hell lot of fun!

    Text her after 3 weeks , if you don't get a response move on for good. If you get a reply act a bit aloof and don't reply her texts immediately. Though be nice when texting but tease her heavily when you see her in person.

    Hope this helps

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    Default Re: How do I get her back??

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    You went a month with no contact?? Wow. You might as well treat it like you're starting from scratch. That's way too long to wait for a woman to contact you. Honestly you may want to cut your losses. Or go all in and tell her you want to see her ASAP. It's high risk/high reward, but if you're going to walk away might as well ya know.
    Well chasing her would have been the worst thing I could have done... I was hoping she would regret letting me go and come after me considering she had HIGH interest initially... I really think she just got fed up with our conflicting schedules and me bailing on the last date but that could just be an excuse I am making for her. I really don't know because she never said anything...

    Also, this girl is use to guys from the past contacting her, so she could have been expecting me to aswell rather than she break the no contact. She has way too much pride to contact me after something like that (if she is regretting it)... I mean the first day I got her # she texted me and we talked... She then waited for me to re-initiate before she went CRAZY and texted me 24/7... So if she can resist, she will do a good job of it... She also has a rule "if a guy likes you, he will contact you" she mentioned this on our second date haha

    I just didn't want to be categorized like the other guys chasing her, I want her to see me different. So now I really don't know what to do... I felt like I should just give it another try at least?

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    Default Re: How do I get her back??

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    I would say maybe forget about her now and try to find some other girls. If you want to disappear it must be for around three weeks . If you've adder her in your FB, upload some pics of yours with your friends, especially with some hot chicks, and in general upload any pics of yours that shows you are having a hell lot of fun!

    Text her after 3 weeks , if you don't get a response move on for good. If you get a reply act a bit aloof and don't reply her texts immediately. Though be nice when texting but tease her heavily when you see her in person.

    Hope this helps
    Thank you for the advice... And I know if she knew I was having fun without her that would help but I don't have her on Facebook or anything. I actually saw her FB and she has been adding all these pics with her and her girls lol so she definitely having a good time without me in her life or at least acts like it...

    Anyway I can either try and find more girls in the mean time and hope I meet a better one (highly unlikely as I really liked/connect with this girl) and wait for her to contact me (if ever)
    or just try again and see sometime during this week?

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    Default Re: How do I get her back??

    I'm all about giving it another try. Especially if it looks grim because you can try anything new that you were worried about before cause you've got nothing to lose. If you want to tell her you miss her, you like her butt, or you want to get married. Anything you want to try just do it and see what happens.

    I get your mindset about wanting to not chase her and contact you. BUT it's tough to use that because you didn't sleep with her. You should've made contact. Everyone is so worried about looking non-needy instead of getting the woman. It's no different than the guys that go to clubs and stand against the wall the entire night like idiots because they're waiting for women to approach them. Who do you thinks getting laid? The guys taking action or the ones sitting back and waiting? Again, don't worry about being non-needy and push.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: How do I get her back??

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I'm all about giving it another try. Especially if it looks grim because you can try anything new that you were worried about before cause you've got nothing to lose. If you want to tell her you miss her, you like her butt, or you want to get married. Anything you want to try just do it and see what happens.

    I get your mindset about wanting to not chase her and contact you. BUT it's tough to use that because you didn't sleep with her. You should've made contact. Everyone is so worried about looking non-needy instead of getting the woman. It's no different than the guys that go to clubs and stand against the wall the entire night like idiots because they're waiting for women to approach them. Who do you thinks getting laid? The guys taking action or the ones sitting back and waiting? Again, don't worry about being non-needy and push.
    Thanks, I actually didn't want to wait THIS long to try again... Just got advice from someone to back off and wait for her to come around. But I haven't slept with her or this wasn't even a relationship so I don't think she would...

    You're right, I do have nothing to lose at this point, but I still think I need to send the right text... If I let her know I miss her it'll present her no challenge, right? I'm thinking of sending something funny (probably some call back humor/inside joke) or something confusing like
    Me: Congrats
    HB: For what?
    Me: I was just thinkin bout you...
    Then play it from there?

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    Default Re: How do I get her back??

    So I ended up msging this girl and she never replied... Game over? Do I try again? It has been almost 3 months since I last texted her... She has ignored me for about 4 months...

    Since things ended with the last girl I just dated, is there anyway I can rekindle what I once had with this girl? Any good openers?


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