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    so i was at this bar with an older couple who i know and we were having a good time when a woman who my older lady friend knows came up to her. they started talking and later on my lady friend told me that the girl is in a bad relationship and that she was gona try to hook me up with her that night. so then my friend put both of us on the spot about it saying right to our faces that we need to take eachother home and blah blah. the girl never got creeped out about it or anything or else she probably wouldve walked away. but my question is, how do you converse with the girl after we both are put on the spot about it and its being made a big deal? any advice? one of the things that annoys me is being put on the spot so what can i do?

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    Default Re: when someone tries hooking you up

    Quote Originally Posted by benchase22 View Post
    so i was at this bar with an older couple who i know and we were having a good time when a woman who my older lady friend knows came up to her. they started talking and later on my lady friend told me that the girl is in a bad relationship and that she was gona try to hook me up with her that night. so then my friend put both of us on the spot about it saying right to our faces that we need to take eachother home and blah blah. the girl never got creeped out about it or anything or else she probably wouldve walked away. but my question is, how do you converse with the girl after we both are put on the spot about it and its being made a big deal? any advice? one of the things that annoys me is being put on the spot so what can i do?
    That annoys me too haha, especially when it is a girl I have no interest in. What I would do If I were you, take her away from your friends since they keep saying awkward things. Dance with her or go some place quiet to talk, talk about something else, maybe make a couple jokes at first making fun of your friends like "wow, they must not have a whole lot going on if they have to play match maker" she will probably respond positively because you are both in a awkward situation, then just take it from there! She is obviously into it like you said because she didn't walk away

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    Default Re: when someone tries hooking you up

    I think a date would be on. Just contact her and make a joke about being put on the spot.

    i'm actually in a similar situation. i'm seeing this girl that was introduced to me by my best friend and his gf. Now i wanna walk away. don't know how they're gonna respond. Had fun time but time to move on. haha


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