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Thread: Help needed with first HB I Ever picked up....

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    Default Help needed with first HB I Ever picked up....

    In my very first post on this forum I was telling my first encounter and number close using pua skills, here a little background story:

    So as I was sitting at B&N reading on Neil Strauss "the game", this HB8 came and sat to the table next to me. Me being the skeptical kind I am, couldn't believe about the pua techniques (openers, time constrain, etc...) so I decided to put it to the test right away, so I engaged this HB. After I ran Styles "Maury povich" opener word for word on her, I noticed she enjoyed it and I went for the n-close and to my surprise closed it. But me still being the afc I was, fcuked it in my text game, ending with HB telling me she has a bf. I made a little humor by asking when was the wedding, since it sounded so serious, and told her I should be invited, then I just kinda froze her up for months and deleted her number.

    So this past 7/31/13, somebody sent me an empty text (I know right, kinda crazy):
    HB: *empty text* ( with unknown number)
    Me: Wow how do you send empty text? My phone won't let me do it. Lol show me pls.

    No text after that, so I just left it alone. So today 8/4/13, I received a phone call from that same number around 11.30pm, and that was a girl on the other hand, she said "hi how are you, just calling to check on you... and I barely could hear the rest. I then ask who was that, and I still couldn't hear so I just hang up the phone thinking it was a wrong number and texted.
    Me: Who's this? I got a new phone, and you might have the wrong number.
    HB: it's HB, the girl from scad you talked to couple of months ago

    At that point I was shocked. Surprised she still had my number in her phone after months, so I didn't even responded yet as it was late, played it off as I was sleep already.
    I need help in re-engaging this girl. I don't wanna make the same mistakes I made in the past and real want to either close her or manage to keep her in my circle for social proof. How do you guys suggest I should go about it? All contribution is more than welcome.
    Nikee --Just did it--

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    Default Re: Help needed with first HB I Ever picked up....

    Well she made the effort. So I would keep your game simple and not try too hard. Short responses like "Lol ok." And whatnot. Let her lead the convo. When it gets dry just engage her the next day and you lead the convo. Sometimes simple is more.

    Good tip: If a woman is willing to initiate then don't ruin it by trying to take the game away from her. Let her hit on you and run game on you.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Help needed with first HB I Ever picked up....

    I definitely like the way you think Batman, that's exactly what I needed to hear. I was thinking in the same direction, because as I remember I was trying a bit to hard when I met her but because of mystery quote "if you want her, you gotta be able to let her go" I just froze her up and sent her to my dead zone lol. So now that after months she came back I need to change my approach.

    So i sent her this:
    Me: hey there fashionista :-) (tried a little call back humor her because she had told me she study fashion) 7pm
    And she still didn't text back, but oh well I think I can go couple more months without engaging her, so it's all goooood!!
    I will follow your advice and keep all you posted.
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