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    Default Day game flakes

    I have been doing day game for a while now. The first problem was that I had was the approach. Conquering my fear now i have kinda gotten over that. I have been getting a lot of success now. Guys this is where I need you to help me. I get numbers quite a few. On arrange if I get 8 numbers at least 7 will flake. It's so frustrating that this is happening. I'm starting to think that I not going to meet a girl I really like. Is there any tips on what maybe going wrong. Maybe it's my approach, maybe i am not creating enough attraction,maybe it my first text I just don't get it. Help!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    Well I would not call it a great success because success is f-close. A fake number is not a number close really.

    From experience if girls feel comfortable with you they will tell you either that they have a BF or that they don't want to give you their numbers. If you come across as too strong/assertive/creepy they give you a fake number and disappear.

    Have you been coached? It would be good if a good coach could observe you and give you feedback.

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    I don't think he said anything about fake numbers. You're not alone, I've got a truck load of real numbers where the girl never answered my call. I have to disagree with you assiearef. I never ask twice and nobody would accuse me of being pushy and I've had similar problems in the past. I doubt the all the girls thought I was creepy cause one of them actually tracked me down and asked me to talk with her and her friends (we had had a conversation earlier in the evening).

    I'm just starting this stuff myself so I can't really answer your question but maybe it would help if you clarified some things. Do you get any responses from these flakes? How long did you talk with them before getting their numbers?

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    No answer = fake number (you won't be able to contact them anyway)

    Fake number = I'm afraid that you hurt me if I say NO

    I have a BF = I really have a BF OR "I'm not interested but I'm not afraid that you would hurt me"

    Reply to text : interested

    You will learn this by experience!!

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Well I would not call it a great success because success is f-close. A fake number is not a number close really.

    From experience if girls feel comfortable with you they will tell you either that they have a BF or that they don't want to give you their numbers. If you come across as too strong/assertive/creepy they give you a fake number and disappear.

    Have you been coached? It would be good if a good coach could observe you and give you feedback.
    They are not number flakes because I have phoned them in front of me. Also I see them on my what's app.so the numbers are solid just can't get on to the first date. I haven't been coached everything I have learnt is self coached. To be honest I wouldn't know where to find a coach.

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    Quote Originally Posted by PokerPlayer View Post
    I don't think he said anything about fake numbers. You're not alone, I've got a truck load of real numbers where the girl never answered my call. I have to disagree with you assiearef. I never ask twice and nobody would accuse me of being pushy and I've had similar problems in the past. I doubt the all the girls thought I was creepy cause one of them actually tracked me down and asked me to talk with her and her friends (we had had a conversation earlier in the evening).

    I'm just starting this stuff myself so I can't really answer your question but maybe it would help if you clarified some things. Do you get any responses from these flakes? How long did you talk with them before getting their numbers?
    Well for example out of 7 numbers I probably would hear back from two. Like the odd response then it just dies out. In general it depends if I have jumped out my car to chat to them probably 5 mins max if I am on foot 10 mins. Anyone feel free to ask me any questions. I really trying to improve my game.

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    I remember Vin DiCarlo saying his most successful approaches were with women he spent no more than a few min with. (I'm sure this is debatable). But the idea is that as long as he had a good enough impact then the woman's imagination would fill in the gaps of what kind of guy you are. Because the more she knows about you then the less mystery man you are. And no matter how good you are, she can always imagine something better. So maybe make your approaches shorter. Become that mystery man in the romance novels.

    More details on a typical approach would be nice. It may lie in your body language also.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I remember Vin DiCarlo saying his most successful approaches were with women he spent no more than a few min with. (I'm sure this is debatable). But the idea is that as long as he had a good enough impact then the woman's imagination would fill in the gaps of what kind of guy you are. Because the more she knows about you then the less mystery man you are. And no matter how good you are, she can always imagine something better. So maybe make your approaches shorter. Become that mystery man in the romance novels.

    More details on a typical approach would be nice. It may lie in your body language also.
    The person your referring too is he the guy that's suggest that woman fall into 8 sections. I will try the shorter approach. Just a need a few tips as to how to do it? Obviously complement then what after baring in mind your suggest a min. How can I build attraction in that short space of time? How would you typically close?

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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    Quote Originally Posted by Monopoli View Post
    The person your referring too is he the guy that's suggest that woman fall into 8 sections. I will try the shorter approach. Just a need a few tips as to how to do it? Obviously complement then what after baring in mind your suggest a min. How can I build attraction in that short space of time? How would you typically close?
    I'm more of a night game guy, but what I like to do when I'm short on time is that I'll literally write my number down (napkin, paper) with my nickname instead of my real name. Then when I hand it to her I'll say "In case you're in the mood for taking chances." Along with a smile and an exit.
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    Default Re: Day game flakes

    Maybe this my help this is a typical approach from me.
    I would drive pass a female I like. I would find somewhere to park (generally I would drive back from the direction I saw her so I can approach from behind rather then the charity sellers approach) comment on the fact that I saw while I was driving by and had to speak to her then compliment her. Then ask 3 typically questions like what brings her out today? Her job? And what she does for fun? So then i can judge if shes my type. Then say to them I would l love to get to know them better or I would like to take this convo further and ask for there number. Probably phone the number ask them to save my number and then give them a hug or kiss on the check and say I contact them soon. That would be my general pick up.


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