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    Default Being called "crazy/mental" - IOI or IOD?

    The context: A hottie I'm talking to on WhatsApp (who's agreed to meet up soon) changed her pic, which I commented on

    "f*ck - you look good enough to eat.. and I'm gonna"

    "Lol you're mental"

    "No, I'm honest (;"

    'Mental' is UK slang for crazy or mad

    Is that an IOI, neutral or a subtle friend-zoning remark guys?

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    Default Re: Being called "crazy/mental" - IOI or IOD?

    Lmao you must be new to PUA. It's one of the basic rules to not sexually solve yourself to a woman. If she knows she can get it, then you leave her with all the power. Not a bad thing if she wants it to. But she could get bored with the idea.

    I don't think it was bad she said that. Just her natural response to your brash comment on her pic. My guess would be....neutral.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Being called "crazy/mental" - IOI or IOD?

    Thanks for the reply (:

    Nah, I don't think she has any 'power' - abundance and all that - there's nothing wrong with being sexually aggressive and not giving a damn IMO (and it shows). It if doesn't happen with one, there are many, many others (;

    I just wondered if she was subtly trying to present a friend zone frame with that comment!

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    Default Re: Being called "crazy/mental" - IOI or IOD?

    It depends on the context. Yours appears to be good.

    GOOD CONTEXT
    "Fuck you!"
    "Woah, calm down there missy. Weren't you ever taught not to threaten guys with a good time?"
    "Haha! You're a creeper/crazy."

    BAD CONTEXT
    "Fuck off texting me you fucking psycho."

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    Default Re: Being called "crazy/mental" - IOI or IOD?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lunchbox View Post
    It depends on the context. Yours appears to be good.

    GOOD CONTEXT
    "fark you!"
    "Woah, calm down there missy. Weren't you ever taught not to threaten guys with a good time?"
    "Haha! You're a creeper/crazy."

    BAD CONTEXT
    "fark off texting me you farking psycho."
    Haha very true! I should add that WhatsApp is a private phone messaging app - we have each other's numbers

    I guess, also, that it's more difficult (or more unlikely) for a girl to FZ you if you're sexually direct with all the rest of it; if they weren't interested, they'd probably just ignore you or something - or tell you to f*ck off

    She agreed to meet up after I was being sexual (on a date of my choosing - she just agreed), which I think was a big IOI. As long as I'm confident with kino, I think it's on

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    Default Re: Being called "crazy/mental" - IOI or IOD?

    Nothing inherently bad with being sexually aggressive. I simply categorize it has high risk/high reward. Not every woman will respond favorably to it, but when one does you skip all the preliminary steps.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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