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Thread: Need Help With HB8 whom I have ignored for too long

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    Default Need Help With HB8 whom I have ignored for too long

    Hi,

    So I have met this HB8 in a club, number closed her then we went for a date and kiss closed her in the end... anyway since that date i have only messaged her once after one week from the date and asked like "whats up", she responded something short like "I'm exercising". So I was a bit lazy and wrote to her after another week... so it's now two weeks since our date and I have asked her out... so her response was "do not write to me again".

    Ignoring , well almost ignoring, a girl for few weeks might be nothing serious, but we clicked during the date and had a strong connection, so she probably feels hurt.
    anyway what could i write to her back?? I'm thinking of calling like "was you day as awesome as mine?! then tell her how awesome my day was... and offer to meet with her again"

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    Default Re: Need Help With HB8 whom I have ignored for too long

    That's being a jerk( the bad kind). She'll know that you don't really want to talk to her and you're only using her for a date and you're making it all about yourself with that text example. Try making it all about her since you haven't talked to her in a while. Something like "hey just making sure you didn't get kidnapped after our date, how have you been?" ( if she said she texted you just tell her you never got it rather then you ignored her)
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    Default Re: Need Help With HB8 whom I have ignored for too long

    Hey man I understand that yall "clicked" and all that and maybe the date seemed awesome and great and all that business. Butttt, you didn't show that to her and unfortunately, came off to her as a huge Toolbox and player haha. Maybe what marvilo says is right, but it looks to me like this is sort of un-salvageable. Good luck, and if you pull it off definitely post back here letting us know what magic you managed!

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    Default Re: Need Help With HB8 whom I have ignored for too long

    If her response is "Do not write to me again", that's the point that most PUA's accept that the situation is beyond any point of salvage. Retool, reskill, recalibrate and don't make the same mistake again.

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    Default Re: Need Help With HB8 whom I have ignored for too long

    Quote Originally Posted by Lunchbox View Post
    If her response is "Do not write to me again", that's the point that most PUA's accept that the situation is beyond any point of salvage. Retool, reskill, recalibrate and don't make the same mistake again.
    He could try to apologize, but framing it in a way that doesn't make him look AFC.

    Worth a shot, but besides trying that, it's over with that chick lol.
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