Re: Over thinking
It's best to just wait and let her come to you. I had an experience RECENTLY where I was recovering from a breakup and got mistakenly attached to my rebound. Now, I still composed myself well, but she gave me signs she wanted more than just dating. And I approached her with the idea of a relationship. I got BLOWN OUT. Never was the same after that and we no longer talk.
Did I misinterpret her signs because of my vulnerable state? Perhaps. Maybe she did want one at one point, but then changed her mind right before I approached her about it. Either way doesn't matter. I should've waited for her to approach me about a relationship.
Don't worry. If they want one, they'll come around. Just wait and be patient. If she never does approach you then it means she doesn't want one and you spare yourself embarrassment and possibly losing her after that.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."