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    Avirex is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Girl is cool in person but completely different on text/phone

    Maybe I'm overthnking this, but when I'm with her she gives lots of ioi's (tons of flirting, constant touching, eye contact, hair twirling, list goes on!!). Then she does a complete turn around when im not with her.

    When I text her, I get meaningless BS texts even though my texts are short, funny, NON-AFC. I gave her a call once and while taking to her, she was distracted by random BS ( twitter, instagram, ...) while I was on speaker phone. Tried to hang up 10 mins into the convo when I realized this, but she managed to hang up first... What a fail.

    Then the next time I see her in person, she's all over me. Wtf is going on?

    Mind games? Is she a horrible texter? Is she horrible on the phone? Is it her age? ( I'm 24 she's 20 HB8) Is she partially retarded? What gives?

    Planning to just pull away or freeze out, or run some other tactics. I usually run my natural game and works almost all the time, but I'm thrown off here.

    Expert thoughts would be appreciated!!

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    Default Re: Girl is cool in person but completely different on text/phone

    She is easily distracted in your case maybe there was some guy there before you or something.Sometimes when you stay at a point too long refusing to escalate the line can go slack.have you kissed her, are the content of your convo emotionally charged . if you cannot directly pinpoint an answer you need to follow the model.attract her - get her out - escalate
    this just a rough.. but then you should be looking to spark attraction again.

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    Default Re: Girl is cool in person but completely different on text/phone

    I'm no expert but I am in college and surrounded by 20 year old women. Is she in College? Are you in College?... Something that I have realized is that by this time, when you're talking about an HB8, particularly in College, she is always going to be distracted by more than one thing. She probably goes out a lot with her girlfriends and not having time to put much effort into texts or she just might just be one of those girls that are terrible at texting and using the phone. I know many that don't like it and I hate it cause in person they are real awesome and fun. I wouldn't sweat it too much, in fact you could probably tease her about how bad of a texter she is next time you guys are together. She'll probably feel a little self conscious about it next time you guys do. Just my thoughts.

    Hope that helps a bit.

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    Default Re: Girl is cool in person but completely different on text/phone

    So I shouldn't confuse it with disinterest? I've only known her for about a month.

    Should I escalate and show interest or back off and freeze out to make her chase me at this point?

    Kinda feel pissed that she can make me feel like this :/

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    David_1211 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Girl is cool in person but completely different on text/phone

    No not necessarily. I'm kind of dealing with the same thing but I know she is interested and I can tell by the way she is around me. You are already showing interest by texting her and when you are around her, so if you wan to show some interest and do a little of the freeze out tactic that will be okay in my opinion. Girls like her in college are used to getting attention from all the guys around her. If you show interest and then slightly back off she is going to start wondering why you are not giving her the same attention that you and all the other guys have in the past. Make sense? Then she'll be the one initiating contact and wanting your attention all over and then you'll be in control.

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    Avirex is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl is cool in person but completely different on text/phone

    Hey thanks for the advice.

    I've actually been doing tons of push/pull and short freeze outs to get her to chase, which works effectively when we're in person. Doesn't work to get her to initiate texts and calls, she's still horrible on the phone/text game.

    Don't want to freeze out too long either or she'll think I'm disinterested.

    Any more suggestions? Keep Em coming!!

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    Default Re: Girl is cool in person but completely different on text/phone

    Not a problem... and good man with the push/pull technique in person. The whole texting/phone/social media stuff is harder to master. I'm still trying to work on mine and it has not been an easy battle. And yeah, definitely do not just completely freeze out cause then she'll just brush you off and move on. We're on the same boat brotha.

    Good luck and keep on practicing!


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