Would you fark her? Thoughts on Target Selection
Would like to hear your thoughts on this idea. very happy to get replys.
A good friend and I were walking the streets one day and we started to play the “would you fark her game”. I’m sure you have all played this game at some time. You say which girls that you see in public you would be willing to have sex with and which ones you wouldn’t.
After playing for a few minutes I we realized that I was willing to have sex with far more women than my friend. Like, I am pretty much willing to go anything HB5 or6 and above, where my friend is only willing to do HB8 and above.
We both say a HB6 and I said, yeah I would be willing to do her if she made herself available to me. My friend said, I wouldn’t she isn’t that hot. Then he made a very good point. My friend said to me, “if you want to sleep with that girl, you are going to have to give her 7 hours of your best game, do you really want to spend seven hours on her?” I quickly replied “no of course not”. That’s my point, he said “thats what it takes for you to have the chance of having sex with her, so if you are not willing to spend 7 hours in her company giving her your best game, then you may as well say you are not willing to have sex with her, because you are not willing to make the sacrifice it takes to get her.
After listening to my friends idea I also know that generally I would not be willing to spend 7 hours with a girl unless I was going to enjoy the 7 hours even if I didn’t get a fark at the end. I think this is an interesting way to think about target selection. When selecting a target, your first consideration should not be the fark, but rather how much you are likely to enjoy the 7 hours that you need to go through before the fark.