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Thread: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

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    Default If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.


    I have a pretty cool female friend initially when I met her she was a target, but now she has become a great wing of mine.

    One night she was out with me, and a guy came up to her and started hitting on her. If found it quite interesting, because I always like to observe how other guys run game. The guy was quite successful and he had a good job and was handsome, so I guess these things would give him a certain level of success with women.

    Any way he made an approach and talked to this girl for a while and eventually gave her his business card. After this my friend was sending text messages back and forth to this guy for a month. Finally a month later she invited him to come out for a drink with us.

    Eventually the guy came to meet us at this bar, after he arrived me and the girl I was with left, so the guy and my friend could be alone. My friend spent about an hour more with the guy and then went home alone. She sent, the guy the following message the next day:

    ďWhat kind of relationship do you want with me:
    A) Friends
    B) Boyfriend / Girlfriend
    C) Sex partner

    The guy answered back
    ďsex partnerĒ

    I remember when my friend told me about this I just couldnt stop laughing. My friend said that she never wanted to have anything to do with him again. Unless his intention was to make my friend never want to see him again. Or he was at a point where he wasnít willing to spend any more time and effort on her other than to open his front door for her, to let her get into is bed, that was a pretty stupid thing so send.

    Letís say that his intention was to form a no strings attached sexual relationship with my friend, how do you think he should have replied to this text message???

    Lets see what ideas we can come up with, so that we can save some readers of this blog from the same fate as this AFC.

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    Default Re: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    I would've said the same thing as that guy. Except for me I start the interaction showing them that I'm very sarcastic and like to fuck with people. So more than likely she would've taken it as a joke. If this guy didn't set that same tone then it's definitely a bad move. I'm guessing from your friends immediate turn off the guy didn't do that lol.

    Kudos on the friendzone with the female btw. They are great wingmen and highly underestimated. Good that you don't have the mindset that you have to try and bang every girl you meet.
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    Default Re: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    Itīs really hard question because it plants room to show your intentions. I would try to dodge it. Maybe something like "I would like to get to know you better so I can answer that " I dunno only thing I can think of.
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    Default Re: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    I might pull out my Neil Strauss Friend Zone dodge and say something like, "You are a good friend but I don't think friends limit themselves to be any one of those three, I'd rather get to know you and see where that goes". That Style evasion has saved me before.. gives girls an answer and hopefully a stalemate to her shit test.

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    Default Re: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    It's better to go in showing your intentions rather than masking! Your friend was probably not use to guys being that honest to her like many women are.
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    Default Re: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    How about something like this...

    Look, I am a man, and you are a beautiful woman, so of course I am going to feel like I want to have sex with you, I cant help it I am biologically programmed to feel this way, so its not a big deal. Plus you know this thing about men already. But, I also find you very interesting and value the friendship that we have together. When you said X this really make me think X. I just hope we can spend more time together in the future because I think you are so cool.

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    Default Re: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    He had already screwed up. The first night, he left a business card; yawn. Texting for a month and no physical, or even visual contact; fail. Finally meets up with her and she goes home, alone, after an hour; he screwed that up. He still had her up to this point, barely.

    In response to the text message, there are no good answers. She was just looking for closure. She would have justified not seeing him no matter what response he chose. He had a shot at being her friend, but I doubt he would appreciate that. He had a shot at being her boyfriend, but he was going to have to work really hard. If he wanted no strings attached sex, he should have pushed the issue sooner and not wasted so much of their time.

    He could salvage this, but his timing is going to have to be perfect. Think: right after she has a falling out with the next guy. This guy could be a rebound, but she'll regret it, later.
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    Default Re: If you want her to be a sex partner, donít do what this guy did.

    A clear shittest. He shouldn't have answered.

    One month without contact may work for women met online, but not so for women met in person. I have fucked girls from POF two months after the first message.


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