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Thread: The Hug Accompanied by the Pat on the Back

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    Question The Hug Accompanied by the Pat on the Back

    When a girl hugs you, and she pats you on the back, is that a sign that she only wants to be friends and nothing more? Or am I reading too much into it?

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    Default Re: The Hug Accompanied by the Pat on the Back

    Really? No one has any advice on this?

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    Default Re: The Hug Accompanied by the Pat on the Back

    I learned to use the pat on the back to disqualify a girl during a hug if I need to push. So...unfortunately it is something of a 'friendship' indicator.

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    Default Re: The Hug Accompanied by the Pat on the Back

    I'm a student of body language, I read/study everything I can find on it or about it so allow me to disagree. You're reading way too much into it. The pat just means "I'm ready to stop hugging you now." That's it. It could be because she just sees you as friendship material, or it could just be because she isn't comfortable enough with you to sustain a long hug. Take it for what it is... one single gesture out of literally millions of other signs.

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    Default Re: The Hug Accompanied by the Pat on the Back

    I see what you mean Lazarus, Gambler talks a bit about this as well...girls have different IOIs depending on personality. A super shy girl, for example, may be interested, but won't give you signals like a bubbly extrovert. One signal is pretty damn insignificant as well unless your in a club and you only have two minutes. If you don't mind me asking, what exactly do you study?

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    Default Re: The Hug Accompanied by the Pat on the Back

    This is dead on simple.if it happens your in the friend zone.Attraction can be sparked most times.you don't need to beat your self up about this if you are.


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