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Thread: When to swoop in after a girl breaks up with an ex

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    Default When to swoop in after a girl breaks up with an ex

    So, girl texts me over last night. She'd broken up with the douche bag she was with. We drank, talked, it felt like friend zone but I was sure to add kino whenever possible. She has told me a few times she used to have a crush on me, and she was clear that she wants to move on from this guy. I wanted to make a move but she was upset and I felt hesitation about it, because I honestly want to be a decent human being in addition to picking her up. She already texted me again, we're going out tonight after falling asleep side by side last night. I usually don't have a problem being forward but I guess I also want to be there for her, I mean break ups suck. What to do, what to do?

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    Default Re: When to swoop in after a girl breaks up with an ex

    Do want to date her? ( back up or whatever it's called when a girl jumps in a relation after breaking up with their ex never lasts).
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: When to swoop in after a girl breaks up with an ex

    Dude,

    Don't be the "nice" guy friend or you will be friend zoned fast. She has told you that her last b/f was a douche. I hate to break it to you when breakups happen 95% of the guys are considered to be douches.

    Don't be the guy she goes to get the ego boost. You need to tell her that she is totally free now and for her to go experience her fantasies before her next relationship. Tell her that rebounds are healthy.

    Just DON'T be the guy she tells all her problems to because you're the only one that is willing to listen and to console her.

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    Default Re: When to swoop in after a girl breaks up with an ex

    True. I was gaming her before without a problem. So I guess I'll just pretend like nothing happened and keep at it.

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    Default Re: When to swoop in after a girl breaks up with an ex

    I escalated kino to hand holding; I kissed her hand and her shoulder in the ride back, then inside went for a kiss, she said it was too soon. First time I've been turned down for a kiss! I guess at this point I'll back off...this type of game is new to me. Normally I would've inflated her ex with things like "I'm sure he's doing the best he can," which of course is instant boyfriend theft; however, this guy really is bad, like drug relapse violence bad, not your typical 'douche bag'.

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    Default Re: When to swoop in after a girl breaks up with an ex

    like drug relapse violence bad, not your typical 'douche bag'.
    Don't ever mention this to her she knows he is already and you may multiply your chances of landing deep in the friend zone.use her a therapist sort of, tell her things going on in your life as a way to start a conversation that was initiated by you.doing this will make her drop talking about him and listen to you if you are talking about emotionally charged topics.think running game.build attraction you should be fine.For now you should be in touch with your options a bit more.


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