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    Default Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    I haven't seen this girl in 2 weeks. We've gone on 3 dates, slept together on the last two. The dates have been once every two weeks, she's been busy out of town and at weddings. I like her a lot think she likes me. The thing is she's one of those girls who takes forever to reply to text, yet when we're together I can tell she's attracted to me. Here's how our convo went this week, I asked her to hangout last saturday as well but her dad whose in town. Suggestions on something to send her to hang out with her tomorrow night, without coming off needy?

    Yesterday:

    Me - Hey powerpuff, staying out of trouble this week?

    Her(3 hrs later) - Of course how's your week been?

    Me - Awesome. My buddy's band is playing at xxx tomorrow night. Roll with me and rock out

    Today:

    Her - Is it tonight or tomorrow night?

    Me - It's tonight at 11... pick you up at 10:33?

    Her(5 hrs later) - Was hoping it was tomorrow night I have to leae for work in the morning at 6 and I have a ton of prep work to do tonight

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    So I'm free saturday night any suggestion on a good text to send her to get her out tomorrow night. I don't think it should be hard, its just that I've used some pretty good date ideas on her and have a tendency to overthink. I'm a little pissed she took so long to get back to me as I could've invited another chick out tonight and now its probably too late. I don't want to come across as needy or upset.

    Thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    I would not ask her out tomorrow. Don't make yourself TOO available. Go out and have fun, take some pics and text them to her. Tell her that she missed out on an awesome time. Try to get pics taken of you having fun with other girls. It's social proof and it also shows that you can have fun without her.

    Then tease her Sunday to Tuesday that she had her chance and missed out. Push her away gently ...then watch her qualify herself as to why you should hang with her sometime.

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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    Just tell her to write down the most important Saturday of her life, " a date with the man who's even sexier than brad Pitt. ( something like that should do it.)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    I would not ask her out tomorrow. Don't make yourself TOO available. Go out and have fun, take some pics and text them to her. Tell her that she missed out on an awesome time. Try to get pics taken of you having fun with other girls. It's social proof and it also shows that you can have fun without her.

    Then tease her Sunday to Tuesday that she had her chance and missed out. Push her away gently ...then watch her qualify herself as to why you should hang with her sometime.
    Two weeks ago I cancelled on her on saturday night after telling her to meet me out. I told her to text me once she got back home from an out of town trip earlier in the day, she texted me at 10:30pm and twenty minutes later I told her I was at home. D*ck move but another woman got back to me before her so I told her I went home. Ended up getting her out on sunday and banging her. I don't see the point of pushing her away if I can see her tomorrow night, especially after she said she was hoping I was inviting her out for saturday night.

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Just tell her to write down the most important Saturday of her life, " a date with the man who's even sexier than brad Pitt. ( something like that should do it.)
    I'm sorry I don't understand this.

    I just came up with this: "No worries. Tonight is going to be fun but lets grab a drink tomorrow night... you're going to need one after working tonight and tomorrow
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    Yea or nea?

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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    Quote Originally Posted by blindbat View Post

    I just came up with this: "No worries. Tonight is going to be fun but lets grab a drink tomorrow night... you're going to need one after working tonight and tomorrow
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    Yea or nea?


    Hmmm I do not like this one.. let us know her response tomorrow!

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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nitro View Post
    Hmmm I do not like this one.. let us know her response tomorrow!

    Any ideas? I didn't send that yet.

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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Just tell her to write down the most important Saturday of her life, " a date with the man who's even sexier than brad Pitt. ( something like that should do it.)
    Wait a minute lol. Is this close?

    "No worries. Saturday night you're going out for drinks with a man who's even sexier than Brad Pitt..."

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    PS I like starting with no worries because that's how her text started in response to me flaking on her two weeks ago.

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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    Lol that's what I was talking about.
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    Default Re: Tried to get her out tonight. How should I reply to this text?

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Lol that's what I was talking about.
    You're a genius.

    Her instant reply - Deal


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