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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Been reading a bunch of Carlos Xuma stuff... all good stuff. Picked up some other stuff like Tao of Badass, Pandoras box, John Sinn Seduction Roadmap, but I have only just started the Tao and scanned the Pandora. This area of my life has been decent but this stuff is going to put all the puzzle pieces together. I have been scattered with natural game, AFC and sometimes total jerk... but no real focus.

    Going out and noticing improvements for sure. Feeling good. No problem dating other girls but I want to keep this one on the burner.

    Need advice on the right attraction frame/direction here in this dynamic. I broke 7 weeks of NC with this and she texted back 24hrs later:

    Me:
    Hey you little coffee pumper...ran into your twin the other day...

    Her:
    hey there, and who would that be? Mother or sister? haha

    I have not responded yet: (probably wait 24-36hrs)

    "NO silly moon. DJs from my movie at salon party and your real life twin was there, same smile, mannerisms even voice!…Twighlight Zone…I had to spank her though she was being quite rambunctious."

    I put early hooks in there for DHV. My goal is also for funny reaction as the final image is funny, but also create attraction curiosity in her mind. She's the kind of girl that will laugh at the word rambunctious.

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    ...Sent a shorter version of that. We'll see how it progresses...

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    "NO silly moon. DJs from my movie at salon party and your real life twin was there, same smile, mannerisms even voice!…Twighlight Zone…I had to spank her though she was being quite rambunctious."
    This text is ok except the moon comment and the spank.the latter being pertinent.

    DJs from my movie at salon party and your real life twin was there, same smile, mannerisms even voice...
    wnt believe what she did

    Once you get ioi you may shoot for the meetup..

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Thanks man.

    I changed it to We had to spank her, like it was a funny party thing. Ah well.

    She responded anyway...within a few hrs this time...
    hmm.. interesting.. where was the party?

    So she wants to know something.

    Push for a meetup asap huh?

    Like, don't answer her question...just... Come to the show this weekend and... Or Ha meet me at xxx tomorrow and...

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    I answered

    (salon name). u been? the djs had tracks in my project.


    I gotta see some more IOI before I escalate. I need to tone down my "selling".

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    its ok you have to freeze her out and engage another time if you may.here she was baiting you sort of to be sure it was true.it ok you went with that but then next time round once you see iois and she seems engaged one thing you can do is ask along: do you know xy place.if she says she does or agrees just state day place and time.book ur dates a day or 3 days max.1-4 day range should be good.Peace

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    its ok you have to freeze her out and engage another time if you may.here she was baiting you sort of to be sure it was true.it ok you went with that but then next time round once you see iois and she seems engaged one thing you can do is ask along: do you know xy place.if she says she does or agrees just state day place and time.book ur dates a day or 3 days max.1-4 day range should be good.Peace

    Ok so freeze her out rt now? Might be good for the weekend to do this.

    I'm pretty sure she's going to answer if she's been to that place. I know she wants to go to that salon... We really DID have a party there btw, so it's easy for me to make the story work, and then bury it.

    You are right, I felt she was testing me. So I figured a simple answer would work.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Its unlikely she may but if she does push for it.Personally i don't ask girls out on the weekend Saturday unless am on the phone and she gives an ioi.sometimes it depends.most times am out or have something planned.

    I'm thinking the way you phrased your last response..but then

    (salon name). u been? the djs had tracks in my project.
    as said its not bad but if she doesn't go with it.. hold back a bit and engage another juiced dhv should do.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Yeah I didn't mean it like that, I agree with you, I am not gonna push it.

    My response wasn't intended to draw her out to that place, it was just to continue the convo for 1 more round and I was going to exit. But we'll see if she gets back to me on that...

    I already have plans for a big night on Sat, it's gonna be fun with lots of girls.

    I need to make sure I take my time with her, she's living with that dude and I need to proceed with caution so I don't fark myself up.

    I don't need a meetup right away, I need to exercise alpha all the way so she comes back around solid. More texting, DHV and CHILL.

    I totally appreciate you responding. I know other experts here are bored of the "ex back" bs threads and I understand. But it's what I'm doing on the side, while learning more. So thanks again.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Good learning stuff for us old rookies cuz I'm also early 40's and similar to you. Too many college kids here throw me off....you cruised through 2 weeks like nothing. My days seem so farking long. Question.....what's your mindset to not be jealous about her living with another dude?


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