Good learning stuff for us old rookies cuz I'm also early 40's and similar to you. Too many college kids here throw me off....you cruised through 2 weeks like nothing. My days seem so farking long. Question.....what's your mindset to not be jealous about her living with another dude?
I was jealous... In the beginning I showed it in those emails and helped her run away..... but I also know that he was WAY jealous of me too, since he threw some jealousy tantrums when I was still meeting with her (she told me about them...he was yelling at her, asking if she loved him, etc. 4 weeks after they met! hahaha!) SO this makes me see he's pretty weak,...so I'll take advantage of that knowledge if I ever need to.
Another thing that really helps the jealousy is just being out and talking, flirting with women.