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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Good learning stuff for us old rookies cuz I'm also early 40's and similar to you. Too many college kids here throw me off....you cruised through 2 weeks like nothing. My days seem so farking long. Question.....what's your mindset to not be jealous about her living with another dude?

    I was jealous... In the beginning I showed it in those emails and helped her run away..... but I also know that he was WAY jealous of me too, since he threw some jealousy tantrums when I was still meeting with her (she told me about them...he was yelling at her, asking if she loved him, etc. 4 weeks after they met! hahaha!) SO this makes me see he's pretty weak,...so I'll take advantage of that knowledge if I ever need to.

    Another thing that really helps the jealousy is just being out and talking, flirting with women.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    (salon name). u been? the djs had tracks in my project.
    as said its not bad but if she doesn't go with it.. hold back a bit and engage another juiced DHV should do.

    Well she didn't respond, everyone had a holiday weekend, so maybe she will or won't...

    I had a great time this weekend, lots of fun and a married friend of mine was razzing me for how much game I have. I can be so much better though.

    For the next installment of fun, maybe text her in a few days:

    "(dj event party name). You missed it..."

    again my intention is to build and keep her attraction on a slow simmer and then wait for some kind of change in the air to escalate

    ..

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    She didn't respond to that one text, it wasn't much of a lead for her anyway and the 3 day weekend was right there.

    I changed it up yesterday and sent her a new text about how stupid a certain piece of gossip was.

    me 1pm
    blah blah pop culture gossip is blahblahblah

    her 10pm
    haha yah blah blah I've stayed out of it

    me 10:45pm
    good, me too, blah blah this is how I stay out of it (funny little thing w/ sexual innuendo)

    her 12:30am
    yah, I dont fit w/ certain things lately blah blah

    me 9:30 am this morning
    blah blah I know how you feel (tiny reference my childhood and being different [which was one of our main connections])

    her 10am

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    when you get smileys like this you may push forward..

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    I sent a text that night (12 hrs after she sent the smiley)

    Saw a wicked hot ass sunset earlier...crimson swirls, sharp orange slicers and...you seen any good ones lately?

    My intention was to create an emotional picture in her head and get her talking again, but maybe the whole text or the question part was AFC... she always used to send me pics of her fav sunsets... I think it may have come across incorrectly, because I didn't get a reply... so I'm currently in freeze out mode until..? or IOI from her...

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    12 hours was a bit long if you haven't waited twelve hours plus she sent a smile it may have been a shot to ask her out.
    either way yur doing well.see text game as .. you are there not to chat much but to push things ahead.currently in your dynamic she may have been expecting a reply or maybe not.for a smile she seemed engaged sort of.

    just go ahead with the thread normal but don't ask a question.

    and how inside is really warm..

    this implies somewhat that you weren't done.this should be pertinent if you haven't communicated with her or tried to write again.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Yeah she was just getting into work that morning, and I was on my way to work too...so that's why I didn't continue it...

    I have not tried to reopen yet...

    and how inside is really warm..

    so you're sayin continue the commentary about the sunset...and just pick up where I left off...? it's been like 4 days...

    you think it's more effective than if I start a new thread on something?

    thanks again

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    so you're sayin continue the commentary about the sunset...and just pick up where I left off...?
    I think you have done enough of attraction phase depending on how this turns out.don't start a conversation via text.when you send a sentence.may call her and ask her out later.

    in this dynamic its not best to keep at it.you need to get her out...

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    It's been 10 days and I have been doing other things, going out and practicing, having fun. Redid my house and had a party this weekend... I'm getting a lot of good feedback on my game but I have not closed on much. My inner game has been out of whack from a ton of bs this summer and it's taken a lot of work to climb out of this hole.

    Have not initiated contact or heard from her... I'm going to reengage w/ a text to get her responding again... keep dropping in for a reminder that I'm around and doing cooler sh1t than her chump bf.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Well i think your overall frame is not bad.but you are there to get signals act on them and escalate.
    if you keep going on texting her without taking advantage and moving ahead you may fall flat in the friend zone.i knoe you wont.


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