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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Due to current dynamics you may switch to messenger or social network.
    Be constantly talking to other girls good frame!

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    SMS is working again, so that's good!

    hb7.5 girl: I got drunk at a big party and messed up w/ that one, but what happened I worked up so much male energy there were many girls all talking with me, I number closed 2 and even forget to get another number the girl wanted to give it to me.

    I also messed up this other girl she was in town 1 night she showed IOI but I showed too much IOI back and killed it quick. Damn Calibration.

    Anyway, got lots of practice going on, need to close some of them!

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Another interesting night, had another hb7.5 following me around, forcing her number on me, she was fun but seems she is a drama girl. I used a lot of social proof exercises and am getting better at using that stuff. Also push pull, which is why she kept following me.

    For my ex girl, my phone uses a messenger/texting app (inside the same app), HardRock why do you say messenger only is better than direct texting? What is the difference?

    She sent a picture to me the other day on my phone, and had a small convo, but then all of sudden she's gone and doesn't respond. Should I play my responses down? Seems she is sh1t testing me somehow.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    When asking her out at that time before that became available.texting and messengers are best for engaging to meet up.plus you may tell where you are.bet you know why mailing in current... may be slow.
    One thing you can do is when she sends you those or engages you go for the meet..
    Be cautious about the topics u talk on.a bit of too much comfort was being built.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Another interesting evening, n-closed a cute waitress where I ate, then went out. Had social proof to bring me into a 4 set. I had a target but she was married or something, 2 others were IOI on me, ended up n-closing a different girl in less than 5 minutes, went back to the 4 set for a house party and f-closed one. It wasn't that good, not enough chemistry, just ok.

    More interested in the first 2 n-close girls but not sure if I built enough comfort w/ them yet.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    When asking her out at that time before that became available.texting and messengers are best for engaging to meet up.plus you may tell where you are.bet you know why mailing in current... may be slow.
    One thing you can do is when she sends you those or engages you go for the meet..
    Be cautious about the topics u talk on.a bit of too much comfort was being built.

    Wow you are so right, too much comfort was there.

    Basically I want to wait for her to engage because I feel like I'm chasing again, waiting for her, I don't want that frame.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    That may not be bad but then its like putting it all on her.think sh1t test.
    With the ones you are attracted employ charged content.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Quote Originally Posted by Jstrong View Post
    Thanks, I don't really care if she notices or not, the point for me is to rebuild myself with renewed vigor, apply new knowledge and get on with women... If I can get her attracted again, that is a bonus and I would possibly date her again. I say possibly because that is the attitude I really have right now. I can keep the game on while I have another girl if I want, so in the end I'll be good. If it doesn't work out with her, fark it, at least I tried. If this is the catalyst to make me a better man, so be it.
    I agree with Super_Gamer 100%. Meet other girls and your life will get better. I like the attitude in your quote above. Focus on improving yourself and you will attract even better women into your life. I still have love for all of my former girlfriends, but I wouldn't date any of them again.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Quote Originally Posted by Jstrong View Post
    Thanks, I don't really care if she notices or not, the point for me is to rebuild myself with renewed vigor, apply new knowledge and get on with women... If I can get her attracted again, that is a bonus and I would possibly date her again. I say possibly because that is the attitude I really have right now. I can keep the game on while I have another girl if I want, so in the end I'll be good. If it doesn't work out with her, fark it, at least I tried. If this is the catalyst to make me a better man, so be it.



    I totally get this. I think I need 1 more week of NC (some good parties this weekend) and time to work the old BS out of my head. Then I will break NC with a text like HardRock suggests. I think I can get her engaged slowly, while I work on my game, and I will do my absolute best not to screw sh1t up as I progress.

    My timing might be good because her live-in BF situation is at the 3 month point.
    The advice you have received is amazing! You need to start gaming again. Waiting for her to be ready is the quickest way to not get her back. Going out, being wanted by other women, and genuinely enjoying life without her will: 1) Make her more interested in you and 2) Make you more in love with her if the two of you get back together.

    A wing of mine was married for 10 years, and thought he would never love again. Now, he has beautiful women in his life, and he and his ex have the best relationship they've ever had.

    Great to hear you really want to improve yourself!

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    ..not every woman may have that effect on one.freezing out long stalls game because you build your reality around the woman.eithers if one stills thinks about a certain hb..it could be salvaged somewhat.maybe not or maybe but yh.


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