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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Yeah I tried following up with texts but after 6 texts we tried (over the course of that month) she wasn't responding to anything...so I didn't wan't to keep messing with her.

    I think she knows that if she hangs out with me I'll be able to game her again.

    My last f close was 2 months ago and I could have had a few more but I screwed up and am too picky with standards. I'm really picking up speed with calibration and riding social interactions very well...dealing with fat friends and dudes trying to blow me out, reading the emotions of a girl and knowing how to get her turned around. One girl last night said meanly "you're not my friend" and I had her smiling and friendly with one sentence. So I see improvements in strange ways.

    Ok, so you think I should just continue NC... Maybe down the road I can come in with something for her.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Its good your are easing into gaming other girls.one of the factors that make your situation unique is the fact the the two of you have been through emotions together and thus invested.however even though it may not be a requirement in a relation i dont see that with the other..

    if you have not contacted till now and haven't said anything use the following notes.remember she blocked you once due to low contact.the key in your dynamic is to be at least her freind then may transition from there.

    Hey x,
    A lot go on here. I never wanted to let you in on this but then since you have been very nice to me and are sharp.. contacted you few after that no avail so let go.. went ahead to do other things .. got to go

    If its from your end you will see a change, if not then there are other things you must do may update here

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    It must still be hard for you... a bit

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    I have been focusing on game and practice life with a new mindset... going out several days a week for social momentum. Getting good with opens and being more congruent. Don't have any regular girls yet but going on some day2's and my goal is to have more than 1 regular girl. Very unlike my past life.

    I don't think I should contact her any more. Just my feeling. She's getting married and is posting nice pics of themselves. He looks like me. I just don't want to chase her. She wants to go. She's getting social proof and validation with him. The only thing that helps me is more girls.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    got your.. handle mail issue on forum, did mine sometime back

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Got some regular girls now and going out a lot. When it's on, it's on and an F close is very easy. Also it's pretty easy to get numbers but lots are flakes, need better interactions. I guess what I'm saying is that my ratio of opens to close is very high, but at least I'm progressing.

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    Default Re: Best way to keep Ex in BG while I practice game

    Hmm its great your are looking on other girls.check attraction phase more.your next task to yourself is to find another special girl.let it happen naturally but then keep this frame going.


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