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Thread: Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

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    Default Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

    Ok guys I need your help,
    I met this woman I the library and she was from the Bahamas, in vacation here in the states.
    So she opened me asking to help her doing something on the computer, and we just hit it off. We talked, and I have her the frame of the fun guy, with a lot of false interpretation of what she was saying making fun of her. Then she started giving me IOI asking my age, to what I responded that if she needed me to buy alcohol for her that was against the law and I couldn't do it. After she proposed to buy me lunch for helping with the computer and we talked and I started kino, a lot and she didn't seem to mind, I then started time distortion saying that we should walk around in the mall a bit, hand holding, squeeze and she squeezed back, more kino. After number closed, she told me to get her email too because she was leaving for the Bahamas tommorow until November.

    I know you should never Truro set a date or something in your first text but I was wondering what you guys think, since she leaves tomorrow it might be an exception. Should I get her to hang out tonight? I heard that when women are on vacation everything is a go because there is no social consequences to their actions.

    Advice please.
    Nikee --Just did it--

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    Default Re: Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

    Break the rules. She's on vacation and she's down to have fun. That's probably why she approached you at the first place. Good luck!!

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    Default Re: Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

    Rules ? What rules ?
    For me you should do whatever you feel. And you just want to meet her call her and ask her out. Besides she is on vacation, right?

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    Default Re: Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

    Quote Originally Posted by Nitro View Post
    Rules ? What rules ?
    You should only use first text messages to initiate contact, callback humor and reinforce the frame you established during first contact. Because dates usually result from attraction+comfort, chances of her flaking on you are high as even though attraction might be there, you need a little more time to build comfort.

    I was wondering if this applied in the case that she was in vacation, and leaving soon. But I did went for it in the end though.
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    Default Re: Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

    I'd put it like this: the "rules" will not get you laid. Breaking the "rules" might get you laid. Rules... oh rules.

    PS: How did it go?
    Veni, vidi, vici.

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    Default Re: Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

    Quote Originally Posted by Nikee View Post
    You should only use first text messages to initiate contact, callback humor and reinforce the frame you established during first contact. Because dates usually result from attraction+comfort, chances of her flaking on you are high as even though attraction might be there, you need a little more time to build comfort.

    I was wondering if this applied in the case that she was in vacation, and leaving soon. But I did went for it in the end though.

    I would have said '' Since you are leaving let us met to say goodbye. I will show you a side of the city tourists ignore and I am sure you have not seen'' You can add also a pebble here of you choice if you wish

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    Default Re: Break the rules or NOT break the rules...

    Quote Originally Posted by Jok3r View Post
    I'd put it like this: the "rules" will not get you laid. Breaking the "rules" might get you laid. Rules... oh rules.

    PS: How did it go?
    I went for it by saying,

    Me: Hey queen Elizabeth (callback humor), let's see if your old school self can text 😜. nice meeting you today.
    HB: Of course "old School' can text, it was nice of you to help me today, and I really enjoyed your company and conversation
    Me: To keep it going, your next task consist in meeting at xzy bar for drinks betwn hours of 12-2am. This message will auto destruct in 15 sec
    HB: Lol, I will respond before 12-2am

    *Next morning 8.30*
    HB: Morning, hope you had a great night. Sorry I did not get back to you, was tired and fell asleep. Forgive me...... Please? ( lol of course she flaked on me)
    *6 hours later*
    Me: Ahaha only this time, because next time I'll have to spank you and put you on time out in the corner like in elementary school. Excited to get back home?
    HB: yes and no, I like it here. So how was the club last nite, how many women did you charm with your great personality
    Me: Humm... Let me see, umm... three and half.
    HB: what? Three and half??
    Me: yea the bartender doesn't really count as by law she's required to flirt with customers. Plus most were too "old" for me.
    HB: and what is too old for you?
    Me: 35 and half years old ( *she's 35*)
    HB: Lol, u r funny! But you had a great time....right
    Me: More or less. Ok, I'm off to the gym now, too much texting= fingers only exercise and no sexy abs. Text me your email again (you have bad handwriting), and have a safe trip Bahamas stranger.
    HB: By the way all the stuff you did at the library, is now on my iPhone, my play list and all. I guess it needed time to transfers. My email is xxx, nice meeting you and**keep in touch. Will text you from the Bahamas , have fun at the gym.

    And I just stop texting at this point. So yea as expected she flaked, to answer your question, but I feel that I kinda recover well and showed no neediness. And the lesson I learned from this is that field tested rules are there for a reason lol and "no one shall ever break them" lol *I'm just playing, being overly dramatic over here*
    Nikee --Just did it--


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