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    Default When is the best time to ask out?

    Hi guys,

    I am wondering if there is a rule of thumb for asking a girl out after the number close? Today I number closed a HB9! We exchanged 5-6 texts and then I said "I think we should catch up one day over a drink. Does Tuesday evening sounds good to you?". And she did not respond anymore!

    Can I fix this one? What did I do wrong here?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: When is the best time to ask out?

    I didn't like how you asked her out. You shouldn't "ask", but "tell" her to meet up with you, in my opinion.

    I don't know what did you text prior to that invitation but this sounds a bit weak to me.

    Don't want to sound harsh or anything, just being honest.

    Maybe if you provide more details I could help better.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: When is the best time to ask out?

    Thanks mate. You are very welcome to be harsh as long as you teach me something new.

    Well, this was pretty much the end of text stream:

    ME: Do you speak a third language?
    HB: No just German & English. How about you?
    ME: Persian,Arabic,Turki sh, English and Russian. I learned some German too but I forgot it later. I can just say Mein name is blah blah. Do you have a family here?
    HB: Pretty impressive! No my family are back in Germany. It's just me. How about you?
    Me: Same here. However I have an Aussie mum which I think I can share with you! Look I think we shall meet up over a drink sometimes. Does Tuesday evening sound good?

    No response here :|

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    Default Re: When is the best time to ask out?

    How was your comfort level before you number closed? You might need to work on that a little bit more before she feels comfortable enough to go out on a date with you.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: When is the best time to ask out?

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Thanks mate. You are very welcome to be harsh as long as you teach me something new.

    Well, this was pretty much the end of text stream:

    ME: Do you speak a third language?
    HB: No just German & English. How about you?
    ME: Persian,Arabic,Turki sh, English and Russian. I learned some German too but I forgot it later. I can just say Mein name is blah blah. Do you have a family here?
    HB: Pretty impressive! No my family are back in Germany. It's just me. How about you?
    Me: Same here. However I have an Aussie mum which I think I can share with you! Look I think we shall meet up over a drink sometimes. Does Tuesday evening sound good?

    No response here :|
    Change it next time to , " I am going out for drinks on Tuesday to XYZ Bar. If you aren't too crazy then I may let you come too"

    See how much more alpha that sounds?

    If she can't make it out on the Tuesday you should go anyway to the bar, snap some pics with a girl or two there. The worst case scenario tell the waitress you are a tourist and you want to take some pics with her. Then text the target telling her that she missed out on a great time. Pics of you with women surrounding you are HUGE social proof. It also shows that you DON'T need her to have fun.


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