is it possible to reboot a fling that happened for about a month maybe 2 months ago that was stalled by legit extenuating circumstance?
basically girl from work had been showing subtle signs that she liked me for months and finally came after me. it was a roller coaster of awesome. we hooked up a few times and had great convo. she'd text and flirt with me everyday. during this period i got lots of obvious ioi's but did not know where to take it or how to capitalize. i kind of just played along and got lucky with a few good lines. basically texting was a big part of it even though my game was horrid at the time and is probably only slightly better after reading a lot of guides. but for whatever reason she really wanted me.
circumstance changed and i couldn't see her for awhile but tried my best to keep the interest over the phone with decreasing results. in the beginning we would frequently have those flirty conversations challenging each other with innuendos but they have tailed off. we would talk a lot about things we wish we could be out doing. lots of texting...maybe too much and not enough calling. she seemed to prefer texting. our most recent conversations over the phone and text have been a bit flirty but mostly just friendly and random. we bs about a few recent drinking and other activities.
circumstance changed again and after maintaining contact i can see her again and have been trying to re-escalate in preparation for going out with her for drinks in a few days and possibly doing some of the other activities we had talked about. the problem is that i realize she was driving a lot of the fiery talk we had. i understand that after that cooling-off period she may not be into me in that way anymore but for 4 months out of 2 years of working and socializing with her there were subtle signs that she wanted me without even doing anything but being me. no game. no chase.
i just want to pick up from where we left off. i've read a lot of material but i'm not sure how to play it to re-escalate if it is even possible. the thing that worries me about my chances is that our conversation is pretty toned down compared to when she was crazy about me. we talked on the phone a few times and have had a few good brief and different text conversations over the past week with a few communication-less days mixed in. she is laughing at my jokes and stories but she is not initiating or running with some of the more flirtatious comments.
so my question is the above "is this even possible" and what might i do through text or call or at the date to improve the situation. can i jump back into some of the things we used to do? should i try a few flirty texts to increase her interest? and is there something i should do to make sure the drinks even happen? the plans were made yesterday by call and she seemed eager yet a bit hurried.
thanks for your help