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    PokerPlayer is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Contact her, wait, or just forget about her?

    I met this hot foreign girl at the pool Saturday. Early in the conversation she says she's been in the country for a few months as an intern but she's going back to college in her home country in 2 weeks. I sort of discount any chance something will happen but the conversation is going well so I ask her if she'd be interested in checking out one of the places in my town. She says sure but isn't sure about her schedule since she's leaving soon and starts thinking out loud about what day she may be free. Thinking this might just be an excuse I give her an easy out by saying something like "that's ok if you don't have time, don't worry about it" she keeps thinking out loud and I give her another easy out and she doesn't take it again so I think the excuse is genuine. So then I say "how about we exchange numbers and we can figure out when to get together later" and she goes for it and I get her number. We talk a little longer and when she leaves I tell her to let me know if she'd be free to get together.

    Since then I haven't heard anything. Normally I wouldn't leave the ball in her court but considering the circumstances I'm not sure if there's any better option although I'm debating texting her and asking if she knows her schedule now. To be honest I don't expect anything to come of this considering the time constraint but I'm just viewing this as practice since she might be the hottest girl I've ever N closed and typically I attract older women not younger ones. What do you guys think. Did I play it right? How would you guys proceed in this circumstance?

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    Default Re: Contact her, wait, or just forget about her?

    You gave her two outs and she didn't take either. She's interested.
    I wouldn't have given her the outs mind you, but you recovered enough to get the number.

    Here's the thing...you're the guy...you have to make the move. She is not going to set up a date with you...you have to go for it. Be presumptive,assume you have the date...send her a fun, flirty text, telling her you'll be going out to a place on a specific day at a specific time and that it'll be fun.

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    Default Re: Contact her, wait, or just forget about her?

    Giving her the outs was nice, but risky. She didn't take it so you got lucky. She is interested. But I wouldn't have told her to contact you about if she's free. Now you risk looking needy if you contact her. Next time tell her you will contact her a little later in the day then don't contact her until the next day.

    But you've got no choice. Hit her up and set something up ASAP. The time constraint just means you have to work faster. Take this as a challenge and don't give up so easily. It takes roughly 7 hours to build enough comfort with a woman that she will sleep with you. Two weeks is plenty of time. Go for it man and push. This is your challenge so learn from it.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Contact her, wait, or just forget about her?

    Update: So I called her today and the phone rang a zillion time and then a message came on saying "This phone is not available please try again later" (it wasn't an answering message and there was no way to leave a message). I'm guessing her cell service was shut off for some reason. I did text her afterwards and hopefully she gets that when her service is turned back on. Here's the weird part she mentioned that she had no service the day I got her number (Saturday). I just assumed the cell tower was down because my area is not in the booneys. But this means her cell phone service has been off for at least 3 days. And the number is really her. I did a reverse phone search and it says it's a wireless phone that was registered in my town to the carrier she had mentioned. I guess my only option is to hope I run into her again at the pool but that seems unlikely since that was the first time I had ever run into her.

    Thanks guys for your advice. Hopefully this will work out but if not I got some other numbers recently so this isn't my only option. I think my game might be improving so thanks everyone for all the help.


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