Re: bullet proof friend zoned
Ignore her for a while and work on yourself, get new hobbies, make new friends, enjoy it.
She'll come back to you with her truckload of so called drama in her life and will try to make you listen to her and help her because you've been her cute little best friend who listens to the bf problems all the time.
When she comes back and starts ranting, shut her down. Tell her that you don't wanna listen to her problems anymore, you're busy with your own life already. Do it in a respective manner though. It's okay to argue unless you act like a d1ck. She might get a bit upset at first but she won't let you go. If she lets you go, well, it's her loss.
If you want to get out of this "zone" you need to risk losing your friendship.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.