Re: Looking For Suggestions To Avoid Being In Friendzone
Contributing to this with an alternate idea, another strategy is to put her in the friend zone before she does so to you. This would be especially powerful because right now she thinks you are chasing after her with everything you got. Drop a reference on her like "You know, you're like a little sister to me" and then proceed on with your game. It will confuse the hell out of her, and it will only make her all the more crazier for you.
It's push and pull basically with giving her mixed signals, but rather it involves going to two different extremes at once. Right now, I think that she knows you are attracted to her, and it's annoying her. Thus, she's going into a hard to get position. I'm not saying it isn't possible to get her now, it still is. However, trying to hide it from her is going to be super difficult without taking some very large steps. That's why putting her in the friend zone will do the trick.
On one last note, I wouldn't idolize her so much anymore. As Shoreguy said, don't do something unless you know she will return the favor. Don't feed her olives, don't brush eyelashes off her face, don't do anything that would be considered sophisticated and romantic. Back off for a bit, and see how she reacts.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X