I'll make this as simple as I can. Sorry that it is so long. But, it's a good story!
I was working on a theater show for a few months and this one girl was co-starring with me. Rehearsals for the show lasted about three months on and off but I never had much of chance to talk with her at practice. I had known her previously, but I also know she HAS a bf. She is the sort of girl who seems quality and her facebook photos make her seem like the good girl. A couple days before our last show, some of us went to check out a different show and she sat beside me. We were all drinking and I had to use the washroom 20 mins before the show ended. As I came back, she appears beside me (I think she was using the washroom, too). We sat at the back of the theater and she starts stroking my arm, and tries to grab my hand. I don't let her until after several minutes of trying. I was simply enjoying what was going on. The show ends, we all leave for home. She texted saying 'Sorry, I was getting so flirty. Been hard to hold back." I liked that last bit there.
A couple days later, we had our last show. I got to the venue early, and when I saw her arriving I kind of wanted to freeze her out just because. So, I noticed a friend I "hadn't seen in a while", I got a call (which was fluke), I set up the props, I had an "important conversation" with the director. Sure enough, she still was flirty. After the show, she and I and a couple others went for drinks. Later, we switch tables and I am positioned further away from her making it hard to talk to her. I texted a woman "pawn" of mine and told her to meet me there. I go outside for about 40 minutes texting the girl I'm into not to leave to the next venue without me. She started texting asking where I was and stuff. But I didn't reply. I met up with this "pawn" and went back to the bar. My pawn sits next to me and we start chatting and getting giggly and I put my hand on her leg. The whole jealousy plot line worked I think because I took a trip to the washroom, and the girl I'm into texts asking "is that your ex?" and jokingly/flirtingly said to me later "you were feeling up her legs!" I came back to the table and this girl is giving me these flirty looks, clearly into me, but I always turned my attention back to my "pawn" friend. The pawn leaves, and so now that the jealousy seed has been planted, we move onto the next venue. A house party. I'm feeling pretty good by this point.
At the house party, I made sure to talk to all these different, interesting people who I'm getting amazingly useful information from. So, again, I didn't really talk with her much, even though there was roughly 20 other very cool guys in the house, and about 5 women. But as the party winded down, she drove me home and asked if I could show her my place. Haha. So, she comes in, and I save my room for last. As soon as she goes in my room, she flings herself onto my bed. For the next 13 hours we are farking, laughing, telling stories, having a fantastic time. If the bf ever came up, she'd say, "let's not think about that". She had nothing but good things to say about the situation and how much fun it was. And she was nothing but amazing and cute herself, wrapped up in my sheet while eating breakfast on my deck. An image I'll never forget.
It's been three days since she left my place. I know women can be feel pretty vulnerable after having sex with a new guy, but I bet even more so if you cheated on your long term guy. I texted her later that night simply saying "Hope the show was good. What an ending to a stellar Fringe year. Stay classy. Oh, you owe me drinks". She replied, "I owe you one drink! hahahaha. You just miss me already!" I replied "that's wishful thinkin' if I ever saw it. Have a good night, Hope". Her bf had taken her to see another show that night and did all these lovely things for her so here I am laughing my ass off, knowing she had literally just left my place.
So, now the question is...what now? I want to fark her more. It's been three days, and I haven't heard anything, but really, I'm not surprised. That's only three days. She is convinced that I'm going to get stuck on her like "other needy guys". But, that's not me.
Any advice is appreciated!