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Thread: I lost my role as leader for this upcoming date. Any Advice?

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    Default I lost my role as leader for this upcoming date. Any Advice?

    There's this girl I've been gaming, she's been away for a month and I'm gonna be in town where she lives this weekend. In this last month we've been texting a lot and I built a lot of attraction, to the point of explicit sexting.

    So I set up this date, she said Friday she's free. I suggested drinks and a movie at her place, she replied, "how about you leave the night to me (; I'll show you a good time".

    Right there I lost my role of leader in this date. So to try to take back control I replied, "Haha alright show me what ya got! Just be sure to wear that sexy black dress that you were wearing in my dream." and she just replied, "We'll see lol"

    Was that an okay reply to her trying to take charge? I don't like the idea of her planning the date bc it might not end up at her place and I might not have a way to isolate to f close. I also fear she'll bring me to a party or something with her friends, which would work against me. What do ya think?

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    Default Re: I lost my role as leader for this upcoming date. Any Advice?

    If she takes the lead, you did something right. Nice work bro. She's sexting, she's taking charge, AND she responded positively to the dress comment when she could have easily blown you out. She's attracted! Congratulations my friend *golf clap* At this point your job is not to fark that up. Play it cool. Roll with it. Be alpha, and don't let her walk you around, but enjoy where ever she decides to go, and mean it. You'll build comfort just for being there, and judging by the signals she's sending you it will end up at her house anyway, make it your mission for that to be her idea if at all possible (eliminating any LMR you may encounter). I mean it, teeeease my man, tease her. Break kino, kiss and pull, push pull push pull all the way to her bedroom. The date will be awesome, just don't overthink it. Flow is cool, Anxious isn't. Cheers.

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    Default Re: I lost my role as leader for this upcoming date. Any Advice?

    Many guys on here have mastered isolating a woman they met at a crowded night club. I doubt she drags you to somewhere worse.

    I don't see the issue. If she wants to plan a date, that shows how interested she is. Let her treat you. Part of being an alpha is knowing how to step aside and let others make decisions. This doesn't mean you have to be a pushover.

    If her date idea is to take you to an aquarium to swim with the dolphins and you have paralyzing aquaphobia, don't jump in and have a spaz attack.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.


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