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Thread: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sterling View Post
    Well, it's on Facebook now as of this morning. They're dating. Sh1t.
    Damn, I guess even a blind dog finds a bone once in a while. In this case, an AFC won over a PUA.

    Unless he's a deceptive PUA or something, I would keep this girl in the back burner, but game other chicks in the mean time.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Quote Originally Posted by ED11356 View Post
    Damn, I guess even a blind dog finds a bone once in a while. In this case, an AFC won over a PUA.

    Unless he's a deceptive PUA or something, I would keep this girl in the back burner, but game other chicks in the mean time.

    I don't think that's the case. Either way, that's what I'm gonna do for now. Going out this weekend, so I'll meet other girls then. This guy isn't even old enough to hit up the bars yet, and she is. I'll let their house of cards collapse on its own.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Hmm am thinking did you show intent,did you at least kiss her.
    If that guy was in the middle of proposing and she picked your call she definitely gave you priority.she might have wanted to hear something or maybe not but then..
    Sometimes when you run game you sort of open girls up and some cannot stand "rejection".if she feels she is being ignored by you in a way and realizes that she has shown you iois in her opinion its to them sometimes.
    your current direction is best.don't feel the need to compete try to make her jealous, confess etc.just go about yourself.

    lastly she liked you she thought she gave you a chance and to her you didn't budge so she took that option.not to say she doesn't like that guy,, but obviously she was attracted on some level.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Hmm am thinking did you show intent,did you at least kiss her.
    If that guy was in the middle of proposing and she picked your call she definitely gave you priority.she might have wanted to hear something or maybe not but then..
    Sometimes when you run game you sort of open girls up and some cannot stand "rejection".if she feels she is being ignored by you in a way and realizes that she has shown you iois in her opinion its to them sometimes.
    your current direction is best.don't feel the need to compete try to make her jealous, confess etc.just go about yourself.

    lastly she liked you she thought she gave you a chance and to her you didn't budge so she took that option.not to say she doesn't like that guy,, but obviously she was attracted on some level.

    Well, she's been out of state for an internship for most of the time that I'd been gaming her. My plan was to ask her out the week she got back, which I did. It just appears that was also this guy's plan, and he acted just a little bit sooner than I did.

    That's kind of what I thought too, though. After all, why would she even pick up the phone? I don't know. There's been friction between us while she was with her old boyfriend, and there will inevitably still be chemistry with us even with this chump in the picture. Nothing will change that, except me if I so choose. But yeah, she definitely must be into this guy if she's still dating him after showing her how clingy he can be right off the bat. As fast as I acted, it could have been sooner. I just didn't see the need until it was already too late.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Just wanted to raise the possibility that she might have been waiting for this guy to man up for years. You've said they were friends for a long time, so it's not impossible. In that situation you don't stand a chance sadly....

    Keep on with what you're doing, sounds like you got your shit in order.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Well I must be getting to her a little bit. Haven't said a word to her the past few days and she tried to call me late last night for some reason. I was out and about and didn't answer. I'll just let her bring it up next time we see each other.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    The Bad News? It's a rebound relationship. She wanted the exact opposite of her old boyfriend, sounds like he was aloof and inattentive, guess what this new guy is! Surprise! Should have been paying more attention to the old boyfriend so you could make sure not to accidentally have any of his traits, and perhaps even accentuate the opposite traits in yourself.

    The Good News? It's a rebound relationship! It's not likely to last. Unless she's one of those girls that bounces from rebound to rebound... you know the ones, the ones that have many boyfriends yet never seem to be single more than a day. Follow everyone's advice here on continuing to game other girls, but your instinct to back burner may be correct, just make sure to pay attention for when she comes off the rebound.

    The Ugly? As CAM83 said, if this guy was an true friend or someone she had a crush on for ages, the rebound might just stick. It does happen sometimes. One more reason to keep sarging. Also, if this girl was flirting with you (and possibly this other guy) WHILE seeing the old boyfriend, do you really want her? Think about someday the roles being reversed (you being the unwitting boyfriend while she flirts secretly with all these other guys). Maybe acceptable for a fling, but don't get the oneitis over this girl unless you're sure you've got her tamed.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Quote Originally Posted by Magnum View Post
    The Bad News? It's a rebound relationship. She wanted the exact opposite of her old boyfriend, sounds like he was aloof and inattentive, guess what this new guy is! Surprise! Should have been paying more attention to the old boyfriend so you could make sure not to accidentally have any of his traits, and perhaps even accentuate the opposite traits in yourself.

    The Good News? It's a rebound relationship! It's not likely to last. Unless she's one of those girls that bounces from rebound to rebound... you know the ones, the ones that have many boyfriends yet never seem to be single more than a day. Follow everyone's advice here on continuing to game other girls, but your instinct to back burner may be correct, just make sure to pay attention for when she comes off the rebound.

    The Ugly? As CAM83 said, if this guy was an true friend or someone she had a crush on for ages, the rebound might just stick. It does happen sometimes. One more reason to keep sarging. Also, if this girl was flirting with you (and possibly this other guy) WHILE seeing the old boyfriend, do you really want her? Think about someday the roles being reversed (you being the unwitting boyfriend while she flirts secretly with all these other guys). Maybe acceptable for a fling, but don't get the oneitis over this girl unless you're sure you've got her tamed.
    You're definitely right about this guy being the opposite of her last boyfriend. From what little I can gather on them, they seem to be completely different from each other. Fortunately, this girl isn't the type that bounces from guy to guy with little to no downtime. So you might be right about this guy being a rebound, although it's hard to say for sure since she had been single for a few months.
    At any rate I've been talking to a couple other cuties since then, hoping to k-close at least one of them within the next few weeks. We'll see...

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Sterling this indicates you are now on the other side instead of opposite at that time.you may bring her in.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Sterling this indicates you are now on the other side instead of opposite at that time.you may bring her in.
    I don't follow you on that one HardRock. What do you mean?


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