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Thread: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

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    Default Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    So I've been gaming this girl for quite some time now, and everything had been going pretty smoothly. She was overtly responsive to my flirting, has given me tons of IOI's in the past, and always tries to keep the conversation going whenever we talk. She would even playfully respond to my future projections about us being married/divorced and having kids. The only problem is that she'd been out of town for the past few weeks, so I hadn't gotten the chance to ask her out properly.

    This is where it gets interesting. I text her a few nights ago and tell her that we should meet up before classes start up again. She readily agrees. A couple days later, I call her up and tell her I want to take her out to dinner the following night. She tells me she's busy that night and so I ask what she's doing the next night, to which she says that she'll get back to me.

    Well, this morning I find out that one of her friends, who is about 2 years younger than she is, was in the middle of confessing his love to her when I made the call to ask her to dinner. He even made some post on a social networking site about how she's his 'best friend', and he loves her no matter what, and wants her to be his girlfriend and blah blah blah. Reading it made me cringe, because what girl in her right mind wouldn't see something like that and head for the hills? Apparently not her, as I saw her comment on it that she thought it was super cute. Ew.

    Shortly after I had this revelation, I get a message from her saying that she MIGHT be free on such and such day. So naturally I stay alpha and go non-reactive, tell her I have plans for that night, and didn't respond to her next text.

    Honestly, I'm just too shocked by what this kid did to make any sense of it. Nothing is official yet, so I don't know if they're exclusive after his little confession or not. Assuming they DO end up dating, what should my next move be? I'm definitely going to keep her on the back burner at least while I game other girls, but does anyone else think this guy's stunt would have a lasting effect? Surely she would realize how AFC and potential stalker material this guy is.


    Here is a link to my original post to give some context.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-get-gir...-years-ex.html

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    It's totally lame but it's also confident, bold and direct, even if it is on a social networking website. I don't know. Sometimes things just come off.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    I guess that's true, but still...just seems weird and desperate to me. I don't like putting people on the spot, especially girls. It seems like you'd only do that sort of a thing after you've shared a deep relationship with that person. Maybe I should look at it as dodging a bullet, if these are the type of men she's after.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sterling View Post
    I guess that's true, but still...just seems weird and desperate to me. I don't like putting people on the spot, especially girls. It seems like you'd only do that sort of a thing after you've shared a deep relationship with that person. Maybe I should look at it as dodging a bullet, if these are the type of men she's after.
    Putting a girl on the spot isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's the first thing I do when I meet her. Almost like The Booty Warrior, "I like ya' and I want ya'. We can do this the easy way or the hard way" but not quite as creepy. Straight up bowl over to a girl, casual as possible and be all like "Hey, you're really cute and I'd love to get to know you better. I'm Lunchbox. What's your name?"

    Either she blows you out or she goes with it and if she goes with it, you better believe she's into it.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    That is some pretty chump antics.. but it worked. Doesn't necessarily mean that lover boy will keep her, or that he even has her, but shows how to adjust your material to fit what she wants.. Attention. Go direct.. really direct. If they aren't exclusive, I'd keep sarging.. hell I'd keep sarging anyway lol it's up to you whether she's worth the time and effort, I'd move on and wait for the fallout to be the rebound but that's just me. Good luck brother. Cheers

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Categorize it as high risk/high reward. That is the biggest risk any guy can take when it comes to a woman. Nothing is guaranteed 100%. I'm sure once in a while an AFC can get a girl over a PUA. It's just so rare that it's like finding a leprechaun riding a unicorn. You just were unlucky enough for it to happen to you.

    Granted we don't know that anything has come of this confession that he did. But you should still go for it. Work on putting her on an emotional rollercoaster so her focus shifts onto you. The guy that can make her feel a range of emotions is the one that gets her.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Lol he doesn't have her. They're best friends and she wants to be there for him. She responded positively saying its cute but i really doubt it'll actually amount to anything. She was just saying that because they're good friends and he opened up to her, and she didn't want to hurt his feelings or make him look bad.

    I'd keep trying to game her. Keep doing your thing and building attraction and I'm sure she'll go for you over him. But you also have to remember just because she doesn't choose him doesn't mean she'll choose you. She could have other guys in her life, or she might not be that into you.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    All sound advice. So should I try one more time to set something up before next week, or just wait a few days to see how this thing plays out before I contact her again? Our classes start in 3 days, so it wouldn't be very long of a wait.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Well, it's on Facebook now as of this morning. They're dating. Sh1t.

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    Default Re: Clingy Guy Gets the Girl? I'm Floored.

    Well I'll be. That's some pretty messed up stuff there

    Like Batman said, it's high risk and high reward. I doubt he thinks of it as that way though, but it worked. Your best bet is to just put her on the backburner and leave it as it is. Unless she is the dominant type who likes to have all the power and control in a relationship, or unless he's just a really powerful Alpha in disguise, I doubt they will remain together for long. Go work on your game with other people, and then once the glass castle comes crumbling down, come back around with something fresh, new, and able to really knock her off her feet.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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