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Thread: HB asks What can you offer me?

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    Default HB asks What can you offer me?

    so, I met this HB online and she asks me: "what I can offer her? what can a younger guy offer( she is 6 yr older)? sex? ...again...not interested"

    I could probably write that I can only offer her a good time spent together, but only that. However this seems like a sh1t test and I probably should try to qualify her instead by asking what she can offer to me...

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    Default Re: HB asks What can you offer me?

    Well, why not look at what the basic idea of proper pickup is.

    Your goal is to offer her something that she hasn't seen. She is used to the same boring routine, the same men with the same goal of getting into her pants. She has seen it time and time again, and she is looking for something outside of the norm.

    To be a successful pickup artist, you have to offer something out of the norm. Right now, she is expecting you to try and get to the goal of sex. You have to throw her off and make her unsure of what you really want. As 50 Cent says, it is important to hide your true intentions and work things towards your ultimate objective. By the time your target figures out, it will probably be too late for her, and she might not even care anyways.

    To answer your question, I would say the second part sounds better. Send her something like "Depends, what can a more mature woman like yourself offer to me?"
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    Default Re: HB asks What can you offer me?

    Hb answered : "So we don't have anything in common, good luck"
    I feel like I'm dealing with a crazy person honestly...

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    Default Re: HB asks What can you offer me?

    Bail out my man, she's not having it. To indirectly paraphrase an Alfred quote "some women don't care about value.. some women just want to watch your routine burn" lmao. Don't sweat it bro, move on to new and possible younger conquests, she's all sarged up lol Cheers

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    Default Re: HB asks What can you offer me?

    Swagman is right; in my experience though, as x Mojo x says, there are some women whose bitch shields are up so high that it's not worth it. Probably the best thing from here would be to do a Style type cold read then divert to new topic:
    "Ya know, you're mature. You've been hurt before but you're super strong. Sometimes other people think you are cold, but once you get to know someone and trust them, you are the warmest person in the world. I bet you're fiercely loyal too. If I was after sex, I wouldn't be talking to you still, because I can tell you're not that type of woman. Tell me something, HB. What's the one activity in the world that really puts you into the flow state?"

    Some variation on that. You're in pretty deep into rejection territory so you'll need a curve ball.

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    Default Re: HB asks What can you offer me?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lancelot View Post
    Swagman is right; in my experience though, as x Mojo x says, there are some women whose bitch shields are up so high that it's not worth it. Probably the best thing from here would be to do a Style type cold read then divert to new topic:
    "Ya know, you're mature. You've been hurt before but you're super strong. Sometimes other people think you are cold, but once you get to know someone and trust them, you are the warmest person in the world. I bet you're fiercely loyal too. If I was after sex, I wouldn't be talking to you still, because I can tell you're not that type of woman. Tell me something, HB. What's the one activity in the world that really puts you into the flow state?"

    Some variation on that. You're in pretty deep into rejection territory so you'll need a curve ball.
    Jesus, this is a great message. If I were you, I would send this to her, because throwing her off is definitely your best option. This would be your last shot though. If this doesn't get an interesting reaction out of her, then it is time for you to move on to someone else.

    I would definitely say to NOT go outside of your interests in terms of what kind of women you like. If you like older women, then stick with older women. I can say one of the biggest mistakes I ever made in my life was when I dumped all of my standards and just picked a girl for the hell of it. Ended up creating a relationship that wrecked my outer social life, and in the end I realized I only liked the relationship, not the person.

    Don't you EVER abandon what you believe in so that you can simply say that you have gotten it in. The fruit is only all the more sweeter when you pluck it from the tree that you want it from. That is the lesson that I impart onto you.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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