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    Default Dealing with HB flakes (long)

    I met an HB from a mutual friend. She would tell him how cute I was and always trying to do things with him so she can come see me because she knew we were always hanging out. She kept telling him that he needs to hook us up blah blah. Took my friend and her fishing in my boat. Did small kino and flirted with her. Was cocky and funny. Didn't do much more because my friend was there. She said she was coming over after fishing to hang out and drink and stuff. Well I didn't expect her to flake but this is hOw our txt convo went after fishing.

    Her: hey what y'all doing tonight?
    Me: friends name went home..going shower
    Me: I'm trying to get rid of everything on DVR. Come help!
    Her: haha what
    Me DVR help!
    Her u don't know how to use it?
    Me:I'm watching my recorded list..it's a lot
    Her: bunch of racing huh?
    Me: nah those have been tended to...Ridiculousness
    Her: why can't u be normal and record movies
    Me: bc I'm not normal
    Me: wyd tonight
    Her: well I knew that
    Her: and I'm wanting to drink what about u?
    Me: I'm on my 2nd one! U late! (40min later)
    Her: I can't tonight, I'm going to bar name..I can help u with those beers tomorrow though
    Me: that's cool, I'm riding 4 wheelers
    Her: so jealous!

    Next morning:

    Her: let's me know that fish should be biting today bc she hear from a friend. 9:49AM
    Me: i know! me and girl name went today. Got a few fish. I'm fished out for a cpl days now lma( pic of a big fish I caught that day and let her know I took another girl)12:00PM

    Her: I bet lol
    Me: at least two day break lol
    Her: I'm off Friday ..hint hint lol
    Me: ur not a fisher, ur a boat rider! U suck ( said this bc she only fish 10min before giving up and just enjoying being in boat)

    Her: I do too fish..u knew I had a bad night the night before...
    Me: I'll let u know when I go boat riding ;p
    Her: ugh
    Me: mud riding later get ready 1:31PM
    Her: he'll yeah 2:01PM
    Me: be at my place at 5:30. 4:03PM
    Her: you'll have to count me out. My hang over sucks 4:49PM
    Me: thought u were adventurous..lame as! JK that's cool
    Her: I really want to come..my body just isn't letting me

    Next day:

    Me: sent pic of big fish I just caught bc I went fishing again
    Her: at it again lol
    Me: hell yeah! Got talked into it ( sent pic of more fish I caught)
    Her: now I'm really jealous

    She is one of those girls that has all guy friends and has guys texting her all the time. I know this is a red flag but I'm not trying to make her my GF. I honestly don't care what happens. I'm just using her for practice. I have read magnetic messaging to improve my game and txt. Any advice guys? Thanks

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    Default Re: Dealing with HB flakes (long)

    I like your mindset in that this is just practice. With the idea that you have nothing to lose, the game gets easier, and it really allows you to experiment and break new boundaries. That's how I started out the game, and that's how I got to where I am right now.

    It's a decent conversation. Not too funny, but not too boring either. Your best moments in the conversation are your responses to her questions ("why can't you be normal and record movies?" "bc I'm not normal"). Sending her a pic of you with another girl is a risky make or break move. It can make you because it can instill jealousy in her, or it can break you by turning her off of you. Due to the fact that she has a lot of guy friends chasing after her, I think it was more so break. Might explain the second flake, or then again you can look at her history with other guys and say that flaking was inevitable without the photo.

    I would say sending her nonstop pics of the fish may get annoying. I can say from personal experience that it got really boring and annoying quick when this girl I knew never changed up the Snapchats she sent me. Variety is key when picking up a girl, in pictures, in conversation, in everything. The same old bland routine is the quickest way to get brushed aside for someone else.

    Overall, this is decent, but your text game could still use some work. I would say your biggest areas to improve are variety and humor. If you need some solid humor advice, go check out William Zinser's On Writing Well and go to the chapter on humor writing. Zinser gives the reader a good number of tips and useful techniques for writing some pretty funny stuff. Keep practicing, and you'll get to the top in due time.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Dealing with HB flakes (long)

    Thanks for advice! I'll work on being more funny with txt from now on.


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