Re: Bf destroyer technique?
You worked your game pretty well. Wise move on the workplace. I may flirt with some of my coworkers, but I never take things up a notch. Just light, playful stuff, and they all love me for the fact that I am the most fresh and entertaining of things they will get all day. The gym stuff was excellent, and your response to her bf stuff was good bf destroyer technique.
I don't think I have heard of anybody passing by a moment of chance or opportunity just because they were in a negative circumstance. The British defeated Erwin Rommel at the Battle of El Alamein because they saw a potential moment of weakness and they struck hard at it, even though they were outnumbered and almost near loosing WWII. George Washington was low on men and in one of the darkest points of his military career when he made one of the greatest turnarounds in military history. It's a matter of taking your negatives and transforming them into opportunities.
She may show a unrelenting commitment to her man, but at a close inspection things are weaker than they look. The boyfriend is not around, you know he doesn't give her the due attention that should be given in an LTR, and you know that he is not the perfectly ideal man. You know you can give all three, and you seem like a guy who knows how to run his game well. Go ahead with your gut instinct, and move in to bring yourself a win.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X